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myLot reputation of 91/100. giftsandbagscom (25652)   ranked 167 out of 12,084 in friend 2 years ago

I loaned her $708 and she wants to pay me back like this. I have no choice but to take it but golly I would never help her again. She told me she would pay me $200 every pay day till she was paid up. Now this mess has come about. But,I will just be grateful and take it.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 89/100. snowdoll487 (2965)   2 years ago

True, just be grateful if she does pay you $50 a week. That is better than nothing. My mum lend her friend $1200. Its been a year and a half but she hasn't paid yet. She always have excuses. She used her land as a collateral but she sold the land to someone else. >_< So receiving $50 a week is better than nothing. >_<


myLot reputation of 91/100. giftsandbagscom (25652)   ranked 167 out of 12,084 in friend  2 years ago

Would you believe she did not even call me yesterday to send the money. I will be grateful I truly understand.


myLot reputation of 89/100. snowdoll487 (2965)  2 years ago

but did she pay you as she promised?

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2. myLot reputation of 86/100. laglen (7665)   ranked 3,459 out of 12,084 in friend   2 years ago

That really stinks but at least it looks like you will get your money. It is never a good idea to lend or borrow from friends. It can kill a friendship! I hope you learned here. I doubt you can afford to give away money, I know I cant. Hopefully you get the $50 a week or $200 a month. Less than 4 months to get your money back. Not bad thumbup


myLot reputation of 91/100. giftsandbagscom (25652)   ranked 167 out of 12,084 in friend  2 years ago

Your right I can't afford to give money away. She knew that was my moving money she borrowed.


myLot reputation of 86/100. laglen (7665)   ranked 3,459 out of 12,084 in friend  2 years ago

Now we know....right? DONT LEND TO FRIENDS

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3. myLot reputation of 100/100. pandaeyes (782)   ranked 481 out of 12,084 in friend   2 years ago

My granddad always used to say 'never a borrower or a lender be' which I think is a quote from Shakespeare.
It is still true today,the quickest way to lose friends is to borrow money from them.
You are wise to just take it after all,it was most likely an unwritten agreement and at least you will eventually regain your money.


myLot reputation of 91/100. giftsandbagscom (25652)   ranked 167 out of 12,084 in friend  2 years ago

Yes your right I was stupid and just western unioned the money.

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4. myLot reputation of 90/100. ajarvaise (294)   2 years ago

Well, I must tell you, this is better than nothing. At least you're being paid though bit by bit. We had this family friend whom we loaned $2500 and up to now, he has not paid a single cent. He always has excuses. He never runs out of them. Sometimes, my dad will go to his house and he is always not there.


myLot reputation of 91/100. giftsandbagscom (25652)   ranked 167 out of 12,084 in friend  2 years ago

This friend moved and I don't even have her address.

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. lilybug (16949)   ranked 252 out of 12,084 in friend   2 years ago

Yes, it is better than nothing. It seems like you have a lot of people borrow money from you and never return it, so at least she is paying it back.


myLot reputation of 91/100. giftsandbagscom (25652)   ranked 167 out of 12,084 in friend  2 years ago

I hope so this is the third tim she was too send me money and I have not got it.

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. newtalent (676)   ranked 3,622 out of 12,084 in friend   2 years ago

Yeah be grateful you are getting that. It is hard nowadays and what you originally planned to do changes without really knowing how to handle it. Finances are hard, I mean I never really considered these sites before, but circumstances change and you have to roll with the changes.


myLot reputation of 91/100. giftsandbagscom (25652)   ranked 167 out of 12,084 in friend  2 years ago

I know and I am trying to move out of state with no extra cash.

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7. myLot reputation of 88/100. skysuccess (5593)   ranked 3,965 out of 12,084 in friend   2 years ago

giftsandbagscom,

As I have posted earlier about finding other ways for your debtors to make good their outstanding with you, I am just not surprised by this decision from your friend.

Banks and financial institutions are already restructuring and rescheduling their debtors' debts, so I just find this no different or surprising. So, let's hope that your friend will be able to fulfill her obligations and pay up.


myLot reputation of 91/100. giftsandbagscom (25652)   ranked 167 out of 12,084 in friend  2 years ago

I hope so too.

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8. myLot reputation of 99/100. GardenGerty (35346)   ranked 71 out of 12,084 in friend   2 years ago

I am glad she is going to pay you something. I thought the money was long gone for sure. This is the one that moved, right? I would keep very careful track. I will admit, in the past I have loaned money to people who were my friends and gotten ripped off, so I am a fine one to be telling you what to do.


myLot reputation of 91/100. giftsandbagscom (25652)   ranked 167 out of 12,084 in friend  2 years ago

Yes you can talk you know from living through it. This is my first time getting burned. I only loan family money and hav always got it back.

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9. myLot reputation of 94/100. sedel1027 (12991)   2 years ago

I know $200 would be nice but $50 isn't bad. At least she is paying you back.


myLot reputation of 91/100. giftsandbagscom (25652)   ranked 167 out of 12,084 in friend  2 years ago

Yes I will take it however I can get it.

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10. myLot reputation of 96/100. ANTIQUELADY (16514)   ranked 25 out of 12,084 in friend   2 years ago

I found out a long time ago the hard way that it is best not to lend money to family or friends. It nearly always causes hard feelings down the line. That's what banks are for.


myLot reputation of 91/100. giftsandbagscom (25652)   ranked 167 out of 12,084 in friend  2 years ago

I have always loaned family money and always got it back. But this has put my head in a really bad place. I can't loan out money any more.


myLot reputation of 96/100. ANTIQUELADY (16514)   ranked 25 out of 12,084 in friend  2 years ago

Smart move, u are lucky to nothave run into this earlier. Happy weekend to u.

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