What do you think of "the third wheel" in romance?  

hah, this is really an interesting answer, but i dont think your partner will be okay with it if she/he really loves you.

lol Yea you are right,Some people do it because there partner enjoys the act,but deep down there jealous. So I guess if your jealous than your not okay with it,and it probably isnt something that would last too long! What do you think?

feelings are unpredictable and it can be something that might be enjoyed once but then what? some people end up more involve than "the original plan"

People in real love would not allow any third person's involving. If you partner doesnt care about the third wheel in the romance maybe he/she doesnt love you very much or at all (who knows), but i will never test my partner through the third wheel to see if he is jelous or not.

Ah, sorry for my mistakes in the above.

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Hmm. Sounds like you read "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" by Joshua Harris, bhanusb. I think dating couldn't be avoided in courtship, but then safe dating measures should be taken. Like dating in public, and going on group dates than being alone.

When you're ready to marry, go ahead and marry within a year, why not?

i did not read that book, neither have i heard of it before until you mentioned it there. Is it a good one worthwhile reading? I think dating is a very good thing, even after you get married, you can still “date" your husband, why should we find some public places?

You are right. Dont get involved in a triangle relationship, it can hurt. However, sometimes its really hard to say who is right and who is wrong, especially in love. Those who can stick to love to the end should be winners.