Virginity, one night stands and the way boys & girlfriends look at it?  

do you have any friend like that? cause I do and it really bothers me...its like every birthday I'll have they'll keep stressing about it saying when will come "that time" and that being in my 20's I'm waiting for too long already etc etc.,,,
I dont know if it's that hard to understand even if ppl think ur good looking that maybe you just didn't find that 'special someone' you'd like yet? it's so complexing.


also, boys seem to simply not understand a girl who will tell them they don't like one night stands...seriously guys, is that really so weird? I mean, personally, I'm disgusted by the thought of having sex with a guy that I'm not in love with...I simply cant accept it and go with it.
on the other hand girls seem to look at you like you're being gay or either think youre weird... lol

cause personally I think virginity is not something you should be ashamed of yet in 20th century girls seem to act like that. I may be acting old fashioned, but I really dont see a point in losing it with just someone out there...if there's no love it's pointlesss..that's what I think.

so I was wondering what's your opinion about it mylotters, guys and girls?