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My best friend doesn't now I don't like her like her. He knows that I don't trust her which he can understand. He also knows that I wouldn't lie about anything to him no matter what I might feel about a person. He would believe me over her any day. Plus I have the text to back it up what she told me. So I have prof to show him if he doesn't believe me on that. He might have and idea that she is using him. I'm always there for him that's why its my job to check in on his kids every day and her being to shy to me and her moving in right way was a red flag but my best friend didn't listen to me. I've been nice to her even though I don't really like her so much. Yep I know guys are sensitive and he is the soft kind of guy. A girl cries and he starts crying. But he will be strong about this I'm sure of it.He wants a girl to be his girl not just a babysitter to take care of his kids while he is at work. Other wise then that he would have left the kids with friends. I told him to be careful cause anyone can say they love you and not mean it and she was way to desperate to get him to love her so she could move in with her kid. No one women with a kid should move it right after they start going out that's just wrong and not going slow then they say they want to go slow. If I wasn't 3 hours away and with out a car I would have told her to wait and I'll be there so you can leave. She wants to leave cause she doesn't want to do what he wants her to do and that is being in a relationship where they can have fun in the bedroom and stuff. Thats not happen.

Thanks for the best response. I hope your talk with your best friend went well or goes well. Let me know how it turns out. Question. Your best friend Isn't your hubby? Before I got with my guy, I thought I couldn't be romantically involved with my best friend. I assume Hubby likes your best friend. Am I prying? Please tell me . I can and will drop it.

Your welcome for the best response. No my best friend isn't my husband. Me and him where friends before we went out. Now we are like best friends but that's because we love each other and are family now. My best friend is a guy and my husband's best friend is a girl But they are just friends kind of like brother and sisters that we see and help out when we can. I hope the talk about his girlfriend soon to be ex girlfriend goes well too. I still haven't gotten to talk to him. He is out of town so I told someone to let him know to call me when he gets some time. If not he'll be calling when he gets back home after seeing his boys. He should have some news for my husband about a better job.

Fantastic. It is great to hear that you can have a best friend who is the opposite gender And a happy marriage at the same time! My story is the opposite. I have a close friend I considered as my best friend but he just saw himself as just a friend. Meanwhile my guy found me and we got closer and closer and I started seeing himas my best friend. I still connect with my other friend but my guy is my best friend. It is funny another guy friend told me he was lucky because he fell for his best friend and at the time i thought I would never could fall for my best friend. But here I am , in love with my best friend. That's why I asked.

Well now my best friend is home and he just texted me telling me his girlfriend just left him. I didn't have to do anything thankfully. I all I told him is that I knew she was and that he shouldn't have let her move in with him when I told him not to. He told me yeah I was right. She played him so he says. I agree with him she was playing him and that's not cool. Thankfully she left before anyone got hurt her. He's going to go to sleep now cause he got home late tonight from being out of two. So hopefully I will hear from him more tomorrow after he gets off of work and done taking care of the kids. I love my best friend and no one should treat him like that. I'm staring to feel sick and might toss my cookies I think.

I am so glad you didn't have to say anything. Now you can just be there for your best friend. Girl , I have a feeling you are pregnant. Feeling like tossing cookies is a sign! It has ben 12 hours since you wrote this comment. I hope you are feeling better and that your best friend has written you back.

I think my best friend is at work today but I could be wrong. I'm going to try him in a bit to see what he is doing and how the kids are doing. Yeah I know I've been feeling like tossing my cookies for days but nothing happens. Its getting harder to fall a sleep at night time cause of the feelings. I had that nasty acid taste in my month last night for like an hour. I was eyeing my husbands fired pickles yesterday and I don't like fried pickles. Although I got my chilli cheese fries I wanted for two days. I've also been cleaning a lot girls do that when they are pregnant sometimes. I hate being cleaning but I told my husband its time for the car to be cleaned I"m doing it if you want me to or not.

Then the craving for pickles and ice cream is real? It was a running joke on sit coms when I was a little girl.

I know its real my best friends ex wife went through all that when she had the kids. A year ago.

Wow! Only time will tell.

Yep only time will tell or when I get the guts to take a pregnancy test would be good to as well. I think I might do that today after my husband gets off of work and go get one. I really want to know and have this feeling that I am. But then again it could be just my imagination running a way with me. As the song would go. What do you think?

It is better to know than Not know. I would buy the teat tonight but not take it until Sunday. That way you gave it the 2 to 3 days for yur period to show up On time. Then take the test. You will be ok either way. If you are pregnant you Want the baby and that's All that matters. Money, doctors All can be found! And if you aren't pregnant, that's ok too. It just means you and Hubby have some more " just The Two Of us." time and It also means you can have fun Making a Baby!So don't be afriad to find out . The sooner you know , the better.

Thank you friend for your kind and comforting words. So far what you said was really good. I think your right that I should wait till after the weekend is over. I guess I'm really excited to see if I am. I told me best friend that I'll tell him on Wednesday or earlier if anything happens. I keep him in the loop for this kind of thing. I know his wife use to before she died. I had a dream about her today and it made me a little sad but happy at the same time for me to see her in my head. She might not have been the nice person in the world but when she was with those kids and him they always had a good time with each other and the kids always knew that they where loved. Yeah I might not have the money for a doctor but we will find away if I am. My best friend will help out if he can on that as we.. He knows its hard for us when we don't have that much money coming in.