Love Or Arrange?  

if i can know that i can be very happy with an arrange then i will go with it

I support love marriage cuz i'd rather choose the one i'll live with for the rest of my life than let others choose her for me. I think i'm old enough to do that.

Mein is love marriage. Most of the time i feel an extra happiness with lot of problems. I prefer arranged marriage. In samll age we are not knowledgeable enough to choose our life partner. We give importance to our feelings. that is not enough for a prosporous life. In arranged marriage so many things are being considered. So my conclution is All the marriage should be arrange marriage. There should be no love marriages in the world. Again I feel an extra happiness when i see my beloved husband and my children.

Both has it own aspects and dimentions. We need the support of our family members in both cases. But for me, good bye to marriage. Lol.

For me, it is love marriage. I have a boyfriend now and we have been together for 5 years. It is a challenge for me and for my boyfriend that we have run into obstacles and problems that let us help each other in solving it. In my opinion, experiencing each other before marriage is good because you get to know and love each other more. We are already 5 years, and we are still not tired of each other and love each other so much. We have been through a lot to make our relationship work more until forever. :)

Its definately love for me. Love marriages offer more of independence and freedom as compared to arrange marriages where the girl or boy is chosen by parents so there is pressure to conform to parental expectations like taking part in family rituals and traditions,putting up with sisters in law, producing a male heir,contributing to family expenses etc.
How can one marry someone you don't even know.Knowing someone before marriage allows partners to have better respect and understanding for each other's needs and desires.This way are better adjusted in their marriage before they finally take thier wedding vows.

In my mind i would like love marriage more.From the childhood many concept like arranged marriage can't give you happy life influence me .But you say now you have a warm family my mind sway!Aha in my opinion love marriage and arranged marriage will have good and bad marriage.If you are lucky and have good vision you can get a happy life but ~~~ it is just maybe. Good luck!

love or arrange does't matter...all that matters is the person to whom you are married and the family of that person....i know so many people having love marriage and now they are living seperate and many having arrange marriage are living happy..and viceversa....mine was love marriage and that to was without support of my parents...but now everything is fine i am working with my father both families are happy....i was determined that i'll never marry against my parents wish....but circumstances was such that my parents were not getting agree in any way...same old caste problem....i was sure i will be happy with the person i was marrying and aterwards my parents will accept us....luckily we were accepted by both families....remember one thing don't marry the person whom you love but marry such a person who loves you....then you will be happy