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I wait awhile myself before giving someone a best response. I like reading and responding to there response first before giving someone a best response in cause I missed something that they said. It is fun seeing what others give you a best response and your like what. Some of the things I say I'm like now way they are going to give me the best response but tha doesn't really matter.

I've seen some people give the best response within 5 hours of starting the discussion. I always wonder if they consider that other people might have more interesting things to add.

I always wait a day or so. When I see that no one else is responding to my post then I read through all of then again and pick the one that I think is best for what I wrote. That way everyone gets and even change to make a good point on what they think. I like doing that way cause its not far to others to not get and even change. I know sometimes My post go on for weeks and some of them go off topic but I always look at the main message that they sent first not the additional ones unless they are on the same topic.

I guess if your sending me a link that means your doing really good with getting the best response. But its not a competition on who does better then the other. I only got a few then a gain I don't think many people like reading my response because I write way to much sometimes. Long as I don't have to yell about what I'm talking about then I'm happy if they do or do not respond to my response or not or if they don't give me the best response.

no nicole, i do not think about this as a competition, i gave you the link if you want to see how it looks like to see the best responses of your friends. you can always look at your other friends' bests by going to their profiles and or change my username with their username.

I know how to see what other friends of mine have done. Its just easier to have them come out and say how proud they might be of getting a best response some times. They can just say it here how many they have if they want to or not. If I really want to see How well all of my friends are doing I go message them and see but this open to even those that aren't my friends to say that they got so much if they feel like. I've been on here a while know so I know how things go and how they all work. Thanks for say it to me anyways.

I guess that's the best way to do it after all it makes it easy then. I don't really keep track of mine some of them I didn't even know I got the best response on. I guess I should pay more attention to that then. I say thank you to when I find out that I go the best response from some one. I know it takes me awhile to pick out someone for the best response I forget that I've had some many post thankfully I can just go to my unsolved places.

I must confess, some of my posts are written in aay so there isn't a best response. What also happens is I have the best response all picked out and then another person has a response that is just as good. I can't make them both the best so I don't make either best response.

Even if someone has the same response close to the response of the other person and even though I like both I'll stick pick one that is better then the other still. Someone has to be the winner and someone has to be a loser that is just life right there. Sometimes there isn't anyone when someone hasn't commented on anything on some of my post. I have some that there isn't anything from anyone.

I have had ties. Both " equal in dignity" . I just can't choose.

I always wait a few days before giving someone the best response to give everyone and equal change to say what they think or feel and I only pick the first post that person made in cause there was more we discussed that is off of what we where talking about in the first places. I don't let other things that people and I talk about affected who is the best response out there and sometimes if there is just one person it just goes to them unless I don't anything they say at all and they have made me mad as hell.

I have read the best response and I Knew it was the best response but out of fairness I waited a couple days to be fair but it Was the best response. I never get angry if there is no response that is the best. And I know I have some posts that never had anyone respond.

Yeah I've had some that don't get any response I get a little bit sad about those but then I get over it and move. I know it just wasn't a very good topic that people didn't feel like talking about or something. It happens for time to time to people. It happened more when I first started out but know its getting better to were I always have at least on person post on my post.

When I first started i was less open. My first posts were about movies and sports. Some were the Same subjects Everyone had answered before. it took time but now I am so much better.

I was the same way at first till I got the hang of things. Its okay to be very open on here no one will really care. I still answer some post that I know I have before but those are for those that are new and it doesn't bug me to answer something that I've answered before. I don't answer them that often but it depends if I'm in a good mood or not. I think I've answered the same question about ice cream about 2 or 3 times now.

That's ok as long as you don't copy and paste the same post. I think copying pasting is against the rules. I have answered similar questions over again too. But each time I say it slightly different.

Oh no I never copy and past things like that. I always type it out what ever way I feel like saying it that time. I ways say it totally different each time. That would be just mean and dishonest of me to copy and past an answer to someone else post. I some times dum it down depending on who it is and who they right. I can some times tell if English is there second language or not so I just fix it so that they understand what I'm saying so I don't have to repeat myself.

Fantastic!I try my best to use proper English, no slang, when I'm talking to a person where English is their second language.

I think everyone has down LOL pretty well in very places. Laughing out loud. I hate using slang unless I'm talking to friends in person or over the phone but never online on mylot some times in a chat room or just chatting with friends. I got a lot of knitting done last night and quite a bit of money made while not sleeping last night. Bad for me not sleeping I know. I guess this means Max will be getting a nap today with me and his daddy.

I stayed up late too. I was so wired after the game and my PC was acting up. I don't need that much sleep.

I don't like it when I can't sleep cause I get so bored and stuff. I was happy to get a nap today with the dog. Yay my hubby coming home with free food and we can still cook cube steak for dinner since its probably not many chicken strips he is coming home with. He has off till tomorrow night yay he is all mine till late tomorrow. I don't like it when he works the night shift they always take longer then the day shift. I have more things to do in the day time then they do in the night time.

I understand.. Well at least he has some time off and ... It's Wednesday!

We are going to go and pick up his check then come home might pay a bill or two then get some of my work done for the night and make some more money and hopefully the bank don't take to much out of the bank for anything. My hubby looks so sad. I think he is feeling what I'm feeling a lose of a child is what it feels like to me when a pet dies. I told him I'm okay just a little sad but good I'm sure of it.

To tell the truth I would be worried about you too if you were all alone tonight.It is a lost in the family . But everyone grieves differently. I know he wishes he could do more for you. I do too.

I'm fine. I cried a little bit. I knew for months there was going to come a time that she would have to go. I was prepared for this moment. I'm just glad she didn't die in any pain. My dad was hoping this weekend that past that she would die in her sleep but nope she was just to strong to want to go. Really I'm doing fine. I'm not lieing about that's for sure. I think my husband is also feeling sad cause his cousin got dumped by her boyfriend it seems. That and his grandmother called asking if I was okay cause she thought I was sick today for some reason and he told her no a little sad but not sick at all. I got my puppy and he keeps me happy and stuff.

The one thing I know, you would never lie to me or anyone. I promise to stop worrying. I know it is great to have Max and he can sense when his mommy is sad. I Know he is being a good boy.

Yep he is almost always a good boy. Last night he was a bad boy and got into trouble with my hubby he went and poppied on the floor he wasn't not to happy about that at all. My hubby some times yell at the dog when he should and I get on him about that so much. He knows now not to do that or I'll have his a$$ later about it then. Some days my hubby has to much of his daddy in him which can piss me off. At least he is better then his dad and don't hit or fight with me that often. Its was a talk out cause he is mad about something or I'm mad about something. We hate making each other upset so we try not to and it seems to work.

Communication is key. I'm glad you two can talk it out. That will be needed when the human little ones come.

We never yell and the only time we do is if one of us is somewhere in the house were we can't see the other person. Its like Hey baby where are you and then one of us yells back over here or somewhere. Yep talking is always the key to everything. You don't want to yell around little kids they get scared and stuff.

I heard it somewhere that it is good for the kids to see mommy and daddy kiss and hug.

I've read that before in child phycology. I went out with my hubby's cousin. We went dress showing for this summer. She was looking for something $exy to where plus to get things off of her mind about her boy friend. She thought there were done for but nope he just can't talk right now. He's a Marin by the way. He's a good man. I liked him and so did my husband. Its good to have some girl talk with her now and then and just get out of the house.

Good You got out . Was it very hot?

Yeah it was fun going out today but we can't go out tonight cause my hubby's cousin said her dad said not to cause the other girls are sleeping and he doesn't want her to wake them up in the middle of the night while they sleep.

Bummer, You guys are grounded!Oh well , there will be other nights.

Yeah some other night we will all go out somewhere and my husband is asking me to kick his a$$ in he is acting like a child.