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bhicoy (3)4 years ago

some say, i should not use my heart again when a new guy come a long, i should use my mind now for the future of my son.but now im crazy inlove again and i feel both in my heart and mind that he is the right one for me, but my parents disagree with that because he doesnt have anything for now his not rich but i know he will do everything to be the best husband and father for my son.. you think im doing the right thing to give him a chance to prove that he can be the right guy for me? ist true what my parents says that i should not believe in his promises?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 81/100. alibabes88 (423)   4 years ago

has he done anythign before to make them not believe his promises? Is there anything he can gain from the relationship, besides you and your sons love?


bhicoy (3)  4 years ago

he doesnt done anything wrong, but my parents wants him to find a work for me and my son but the gut that im talking is not yet finish his studies he will became a pilot soon, and he wants me to wait for that day then we will get married, but my parents keep telling me that i should not wait a guy who has many promises, it hurts me so much because i know his doing his best to become a better person for me and my son..

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2. myLot reputation of 28/100. mutigers12 (311)   4 years ago

I would say that you should follow your heart. Have you two ever talked about moving in together? How long have you been together? I have a daughter and I hated men for a long time after my ex-husband. There was nobody good enough for my little girl. The main thing you need to think about is your son...how does he feel about this man you are with? This person must not only love you and want to take over the world for you but he must also feel the same about your son. Take it one day at a time and don't rush into it, you will make the wrong choices if you do.

Good luck and God Bless!!!


bhicoy (3)  4 years ago

were not yet thinking of moving along or getting into marriage life because were just starting a relationship. we had so many plans about our future, we want to earn first so we can raise a family better and will not able to get any help from other people esprcially to our parents, because his parents doesnt like me too, coz im a single mom..

 
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3. gutfeel (31)   4 years ago

i think you should think about it. first, you have to think of your son. sure, you deserve to be happy with someone else, btu don't let your son feel that you're taking him for granted. also, consider the advice your parents are giving, i'm sure they only want the best for you!

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4. myLot reputation of 83/100. giftsandbagscom (12032)   4 years ago

i am also a single mother of one girl. You could take some time to think it over. Love is fine and could be great for you. what is best for your son right now. Is he still young enough where just you and him would be fine? I am sure you don't want to grow old alone. Your son also needs to be youy only concern. bringing a man into your life will be a big deal for him. If your not finacially able to make it right now I would stay alone. Being broke alone with my son. bringing people in your sons life should be done with care. He is not the real dad...This can cause so many emotional problems for your son. There is nothing wrong with dating aman without bringing him home for a while your time with yoour son is worth more. Will your parents be there for you if it doen't work out? This is also a thing to think over.

A promise is a comfort to a fool...I live by this and it is so true.

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