time to take a stand

A lot of men get away with everything because there's always some woman who wants them no matter how awful they are. Women need to band together and refuse to have anything to do with abusive, lazy, unwashed, married to someone else, rude men. Every woman needs to be able to take care of herself and her children, whether she has a man or not!

I have seen this a lot in my friend's relationships. The man was raised to work hard outside of the home and make money to feed the family and then expects to come home and be waited on hand and foot. My friend home schools 5 children, takes care of the house, inside and out and cooks all the meals, even on the weekends when her husband does not work. Recently she had foot surgery and he still expects her to do all that she has always done. My point in telling you all that is that is irritates her now, but for ten years she has played that role, so that is what he expects. Me on the other hand, my husband does the laundry and the cooking and the lawncare, I do the rest of the housekeeping and take care of the children. Oh, he changes diapers too. I think its all in what you will allow him to get away with. Don't marry a man with that philosphy and think that you will change him later, you won't.