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Would you leave the one you love if your parents didnt approve??  email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 73/100. glywen9 (193) 6 years ago

I've seen it happen a lot in India. Boy meets girl. They fall in love. Parents object. Boy leaves girl.... The whole concept of "love marriage" is still to find its way in Indian culture. I wouldnt NOT be in a relationship with someone just because my parents think he is not right or whatever unless they have an absolutely justified reason to think so. I'm 21 and i think im old enough to decide who would b right for me. Love sees no age no religion no nationality! i wish people understood that!

 

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tags:  love, parents, marriage, love marriage, no
 
1. myLot reputation of 96/100. roxy_stp (667)   6 years ago

no way...i would leave home and move with him....


myLot reputation of 72/100. bamby1983 (193)  6 years ago

Right on, girl! That's the spirit!!! :)


myLot reputation of 44/100. sibayou (339)  6 years ago

I agree with u. No one can stop love.


myLot reputation of 66/100. boeyong (222)  6 years ago

Just make sure you are of legal age to do that :)
Because your boyfriend could be accused of kidnapping and rape of an underaged girl if you are not.

But if you are of legal age, leaving your parents after all alternatives are lost is good, only if you and your boyfriend are both contemplating marriage and soon. It tells your boyfriend you really love him because you are going to live with him as his wife and share your lives together.

But - a word of caution. If you are of legal age and you only know your boyfriend for a short time with no commitments in sight, better not. If you are not of legal age yet, wait a little while longer until you are. Your boyfriend will wait for you if he truly loves you.


myLot reputation of 66/100. boeyong (222)  6 years ago

For the boy: If you are 21 and over, make sure you earn enough to fill the financial commitments of both you and your girlfriend WITHOUT depending on your parents for financial aid. Again, as I said above, both of you must already contemplate marriage soon. Worse come to worse, leave the community for another town, far enough for your parents not to be able to reach you. If any of the Indian movies I see are anything to go by, you had better do that because you can get beaten to pulp and your girlfriend gets snatched and forced to marry another


myLot reputation of 73/100. glywen9 (193)  6 years ago

uhhh all that aside what wuld YOU do

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2. myLot reputation of 93/100. marius_stp (3206)   6 years ago

in most of the country people understand that!!! we only marry who we really love! if my parents had a problem with my girlfriend i wouldn't care! i would leave home insted of leave my girlfriend! love is more important!


myLot reputation of 73/100. glywen9 (193)  6 years ago

lol!! so it is :)

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3. myLot reputation of 71/100. mkdmds1 (100)   6 years ago

Hello,
Its true that u r free to go for the selaction as per the choice but if love after marriage than it go upto a long term but in love-marriage it use to be upto a age and as ego comes it use to get differences and results are not healthy.


myLot reputation of 73/100. glywen9 (193)  6 years ago

im sure im not sure i understood wht u meant


myLot reputation of 73/100. glywen9 (193)  6 years ago

oops scratch the "im sure" bit. im not sure i understood wht u meant....

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4. myLot reputation of 32/100. theyaume (208)   6 years ago

It is really rare that parents approve any new relations at first. When my father met my mother, my grandparents didn't approve this relation first, but with time they accepted it. If your parents love you enough, they should accept your choices. Who knows, they could be the best friend of your lover.


myLot reputation of 73/100. glywen9 (193)  6 years ago

I know!!! I wish it was that easy. for my parents noone is ever good ebough! its so frustrating

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5. myLot reputation of 90/100. edras_2 (210)   6 years ago

Just because ones parents don't approve is no reason to break up with someone,and I say this as a parent!My religion says nothing should come between you and your partner.Not your parents or your children.Your mate is supposed to be first before everyone and second only to God!Parents are supposed to whats best for their kids,and most of the time they do,but where picking mates are concerned,they should butt out!I think that should be for everybody.


myLot reputation of 73/100. glywen9 (193)  6 years ago

I love that philosophy. what religion is that again :p on a serious note, i think its more of a culture thing n India. My mom says its easier for both fmailies to get along if the girl n the guy come from a similar background. im like isnt it more important that the two people who are going to spend the rest of their lives together get along??!! Some weird ideologies people got out there!

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6. myLot reputation of 73/100. manu224 (998)   6 years ago

I stay with my love

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7. myLot reputation of 78/100. imagination (195)   6 years ago

i will try to encourage my parents to marry with my love and i will ask y they dont want? if they prove she is not better for me so i will leave her because parents always wanna their child happy. i will leave my parents incase of they are trying to marry for their business or personally motives.


myLot reputation of 73/100. glywen9 (193)  6 years ago

H,mmm fair enough i guess... parents shuld get a chance to say why they think that person is not right for u and prove it too!

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8. myLot reputation of 75/100. netty79 (818)   6 years ago

yes maybe coz i love my parents


myLot reputation of 73/100. glywen9 (193)  6 years ago

U would???? but dont u love the person too??

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9. myLot reputation of 50/100. jaginfo2006 (1663)   6 years ago

may be you are right on that.

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10. rajijames2005 (30)   6 years ago

yeah,though i love him.i have to be faithful to my prents


myLot reputation of 73/100. glywen9 (193)  6 years ago

But why?!!! doesnt love matter??? isnt it possible that our parents culld be wrong


myLot reputation of 66/100. iluvpeaches2 (156)  6 years ago

hmm. my husband is a muslim, and i am a christian. my parents have not like my husband from the very beginning and it make our relationship even more difficult than blending to cultures together!! a month ago i almost left my husband because the stress from my parents was getting unberable, but i decided i loved my husband to much to do so. i am happy with my decision and i've realised my parents are always going to love me and they would probably always find flaws in whoever else i might choose. oh well. i'm happy and that is what is important!


myLot reputation of 73/100. glywen9 (193)  6 years ago

Parents r humans too n they could b wrong..... heres to a loong and happy marriage :) good luck...

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