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Is it really wrong for a girl to go to bars and such places? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 95/100. browneyedfatima (354)3 years ago

My guy and I had a fight this morning coz I went to the bar last night with some officemates and went home around 4 in the morning. I didnt tell him of course coz i know he wont approve. Now he's angry at me because besids not telling him about my plans, I went to a bar! i reassured him that it's a respectable bar but still he's angry and told me that it's not right at all for a decent girl to go there. It's not like i flirted with some guys there. But still he's angry over it. Is it really wrong to go to bars and such places?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 88/100. MGjhaud (3527)   3 years ago

i think it depends with your partner. thats the case iif you have a bf/gf, you really have to inform him first before going to such place. we are aware of possible scenes in that kind of places but if you know your limitations and your boyfriend bears trust on you -- no problem. i, myself go to that such place and i find some distructive act indeed but it really depends on you.


myLot reputation of 95/100. browneyedfatima (354)  3 years ago

i know i should have told him that i was going out last night. but i think he's overreacting and doesn't trust me at all. i havent done anything bad at all so i shouldn't feel the least bit guilty. i was just having a great time with my friends.

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2. myLot reputation of 87/100. kaspyv (899)   3 years ago

your guy should trust you if he loves you and not have a problem if you go to a bar with friends from work. on the other hand there are a couple of other reasons he might be upset about it...#1 he doesn't trust you or #2 he is feeling guilty about doing the same thing and wants to make it look bad on you so if you find out about him doing it, he can make excuses for it.
TRUST AND HONESTY are major things that keep couples together...lack of the same will tear them apart.


myLot reputation of 95/100. browneyedfatima (354)  3 years ago

he doesn't go to bars because i dont like going to such places. now he's threatening to go out tonight with some friends since i think it's ok to go to bars anyway.

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3. myLot reputation of 90/100. yourgoogly (1545)   3 years ago

It is not wrong but Every girl should know about limit.

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4. myLot reputation of 64/100. omair631 (620)   3 years ago

ya it is bad. and u kno w why

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5. myLot reputation of 19/100. sjpuneet (100)   3 years ago

Its not exactly wrong but there are certain places which a person must prohibit
After all, what everyone wantes is security
He cares for you
So, he told it
You need to analyze on these lines

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6. myLot reputation of 39/100. saket_123sharma (926)   3 years ago

no never they should not

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7. myLot reputation of 67/100. ateebansari (2055)   3 years ago

yeah its rong!

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8. speedy3000gt (46)   3 years ago

No, it isnt wrong to go to a bar and have fun...but in a relationship, it is wrong to neglect telling your partner of your plans on going to a bar or any night spot for that matter.

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9. myLot reputation of 58/100. juan_vicente (159)   3 years ago

i think there is nothing wrong of going to the bar but going without permission dis defintely wrong..but for me what matters is " what you have done while inside the bar"..

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10. myLot reputation of 58/100. pusibaba (930)   3 years ago

ya girls should not go out to bars as some men are looking to assault her. they should limit their going to bars

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