Can a man love a fat woman?

OK... So why am I still single! Because every man wants a beauty queen.

because you havent came across the right man.

How honest do you want people to be. That is a loaded question

WHAT IS A BEAUTY QUEEN,WHAT DEFINES A BEAUTY QUEEN

super models,and thats a personal opinion.

ah. recently i saw on the news that companies want their models with some meat on their bones. the " super model " is on her way out. no more 5' 11' and weighing 90 LB's.
and yes.............as the old saying goes - beauty is in the eye of the beholder. why wouldn't a man love a chunkier woman. would a woman do that double standard to a man. i hope not.
by the way..........i think there's too much of me, but i've been married to the same guy for 22 years, the same guy who has recently lost 50LB's and he's still here.

Fritz you must have been watching the same program as I was.
They now want the model to have a 18% fat from what I gather and if they don't have they they don't get the job.
Twiggy is gone.

sorry i didnt know

no biggie. i saw it about 6 a.m. while i was ironing my size 14 slacks for school.

They are actually going to disqualify supermodels in some countries if they are too skinny. They will have to meet a certain BMI (Body Mass Index). I think that's a good thing. Too many women are starving themselves, and I don't think they are pretty that way either.

I like women, she may be fat, but she should be have pure mind and bhright face.

I agree with you.

I think its possible for a man to love a fat woman. Not every guy in the world is the same as another. Not every guy likes a woman thats skin and bones. Some actually go deeper than that. Some actually want one with a great personality regardless of how she looks.

Maybe it just so happens you haven't met the person yet. There are also many beautiful women who are still single. So don't take it so badly.

wat a qn.. of course a man can...
anyone heard abt shakeela...???
ppl love her na.. why...??
de fatter de better... lol..

If a man thinks he cannot love a full figured woman then he is narrow minded and probably has an ego the size of a eighteen wheeler. Ok they are some beautiful full figured women in show business that have men drooling. I can understand your question though. Because i am fat myself and i have a narrow minded,over blown ego of a brother law who thinks hes god's gift to women and he's nothing to look at( well that's my opinion) And he is always making fun of me and having me in tears most the time at get togethers. People tell me to ignore him because he is trying to stroke his own ego to make him feel better about himself.And i'd say stay away from these types because they will cause nothing but heartache and lots and lots of tears. I wish you luck in finding your prince someone who will sweep you off your feet and love you till you cry of joy and not sorrow because of narrow minded jerks.

^^^wow!!totally my mind!!and please ur obviously a good person don't let any loser make you cry...the people who make fun of you are always ALL THE TIME jealous..he is jealous of ur self esteem and of ur confident state of mind that he can't reach and tries to cover by that ego appearence when deep within him he wishes he accepts himself the way you do..I met these losers quite a few times..and now I realise that they made fun of me cos I ached them in the heart with things that they just don't have..

you are right,i agree with you.

i totally agree with you. i think personally that looks dont matter its the person out look on life that makes them attractive. I am a big woman myself, but i know becuase i am free spirited, goofy, and a darn good cook thats how i hooked my hubby of 7 yrs.

size no bar in love

Oh My God. Please do NOT give him the satisfaction of seeing you cry. He probably has a brain about the size of HIS LIttle bitty private parts...Honestly, honey, size has nothing to do with who you are. I believe God has full figured angels in Heaven. So many people look at beautiful smaller women who are immoral and dont give a crap about anything but themselves. Give yourself a break and love yourself.

Absolutely! People who don't love you for who you are - you don't need them! Get rid of those idiots! Everyone deserves to be loved for who they are as a person.

I have a beauty queen, I Just hope she never leaves me .. pray for me guys ...

Why would she leave you?

offcures fat women rao to women

I also think that a guy can easaly love a full figured women.. Actually I used to be that women, I lost some weight, but my bfriend loved me before and still loves me now. You should never judge a person on his weight but on his mind and heart. You should never think that you can not lot someone who lookes different than the skeeny supermodels or brad pitt.

MY DAD ALWAYS SAID THAT "BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER"

EVERYONE HAS PREFERENCES, FOR INTANCE, I AM ATTRACTED TO DARK HAIR, EYES AND LARGE BUILD MEN, VERSUS BLONDE AND THIN.
MAYBE CUZ I HAVE DARK HAIR/EYES MYSELF?
BUT TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION, OF COURSE A MAN CAN LOVE A "FAT" WOMAN,!!!! IT'S JUST ABOUT PREFERENCES.

Yes. A man can love a fat woman. I have found some fat women to be particularly cute. Can you be more specific when you say fat? How fat is fat? A few pounds? Twenty pounds overweight?

yes,i think everybody has his/her excellence including fat woman.

i don't see any problem with men going with fat women were all the same after all only her weights different:) if there happy together then thats the main thing!!

I love fat women too but not very fat.

even i like fat women but not extreme fat!!!

fat woman is always good girl

Hey i know Vimal2k6 you too are fat i have seen you and i think i know you you are from mumbai(if i am right)?

ok my two pennies...why would a man want a bone when he can have a steak...LOL seriously... men you can seriously hurt some of these bones (wink)..

Goodness! Calling people fat? I'm sure we could use another word for that.

I call myself "BIG MAMA"

not all men loves thin women. my beloved one love me as i am. i'm not fat though, but i know he will still love me even if i get fat. i know when he talk lies, and i don't think he lie about this thing. there's nothing about being fat, it's ok as long as you happy

Ya, there are men who love them!

well your face is sexy

dredstar what a lovely comment

Mine says he loves me no matter what! I'm glad, too, cause I haven't exactly stayed skinny, but I'm working on getting healthier, no matter what clothes size I end up in!

Same here, my hubby loves the junk in my trunk too! Of course, I overlook his chicken legs so it evens out.

good for you.congratulations. you should keep your family well

why cant it b possible
i think it is

I think he was being sarcastic. I think, lol.

he said it IS possible.

Fat personnality? What do you mean?

by 'fat personality' i mean they have a clingy, grabby, retentive streak in them, and usually domineering as well. But they don't have what it takes to get away with trying to dominate a man, so that makes them 10 times as grabby and clingy and retentive with the next man they try to enslave. Skinny girls don't do that. Oh sure the ones that are still young and testing their limits will try to see how many men they can manipulate, but the really good looking women are at peace with themselves. The other ones go from bad to worse, envy, jealousy, covetousness, always frowning, always mad, never satisfied: The FAT personality.

This is the greatest rubbish I have read in a long time ...You must be a very shallow person

Amen!

And naiive as well

Funny, your "fat personality" is in a lot of skinny women I've met.

Shallow minded people like dreadmaster are the very same people who do not believe in their own capabilities and believe that the only way they can be considered as cool is if they have a skinny girl by their side. shallow shallow shallow. A man can difinitely love a fat woman because if a person falls in love with someone because of the way they look then its not LOVE at all maybe fixation. Probably Mr. Dreadmaster does not know what love is probably

i am a medium fat women and i have been able to get any man i have ever wanted they loved me but i did not love them. just becaus you are fat does not mean you have to have that so called fat personality which is no such thing that is probabley the experience you had . fat or skinny if you love yourself no matter what size u r you would not stoop to that level for a man

dreadstar....................sorry, but you're mother needs to wash your mouth out with soap.
the statements you made might have been your opinions, but they were mean all the same.
you could have used more tact when putting them here.
" fat " personality's could also mean they are filled with care, love, & kindness.
something you seem to be lacking.
the old saying goes " what goes around comes around ". you better watch who you fall in love with, she might grow to be someone you detest.

Some men love fat women. I have known some. I also saw some on tv once. everyone is different and has different tastes. Anyhow, isn't all this fat bashing discrimination?

DREADSTAR:You are a riot, you are going to get all these fatties so stirred up they will get skinny and then who can we pick on .

ALso if all the fatties get skinny, I won't be able to find anybody to talk to or go out with that is entertaining or fun.All guys are only good for about two minuets and then you a chuncky chick to go party with.

usually people so meana are lacking in something themselves. are you two early shooters? or worse?
i'm sure your mothers are proud of how you treat people.

fritz You need remedial reading school.Apparently you can't comprehend what you read it was not a slam, you must be one of those skinny mean girls.

I disagree with your statement dreadstar...I've saw alot of skinny girls with exactly what you described. Theres no boundaries, no restrictions on who a person is just because of their weight.

Quelles restrictions...

Skinny women are that way too sometimes. Quit with the stereo types. And whatever a "fat personality" is or whatever you call it, it's stupid.

What if your a fat guy, you could get with a fat girl and look like the planet pluto.

Miserable person must find more miserable person... then...is happy.

I can honestly say that of all the people, men and women, who I have known, the thin ones are often shallow and think they need to be thin to be beautiful. I know more larger people who are happy with who they are. I'm sure that's not the case everywhere but just my experience. I've even known "size 0" girls who think they are fat!

PHAT!

Ever see that movie called "PHAT GIRLS"?

It's funny!

I am a chubby girl and my boyfriend loves me no matter what, in fact every time i talk about losing weight he gets all weird because he thinks I would leave him for someone else. I am not clingy or grabby with my bf, in fact he gets upset with me because I am so independent that he feels that I don't need him. So please when you say "fat women usually have a fat personaliities" you should take the first "fat" out of that statement.

i think dreadstar is talking about himself, he have personality.

I agree.

Fully agree asa010

A blood test that comes back H.I.V. positive could add a few restrictions.

roztredtoes has commented-A blood test that comes back H.I.V. positive could add a few restrictions. I fail to understand what Hiv has to do with a woman fatty or not. Are not love and making love not two different things?

They are two completely different things.

She said love does not have any restrictions,It sure could have.fat or skinny,do you understand now. HIV can cause a lot of restrictions.

i certainly agree with you dude

I like skinny girls with fat boobs, does that count.

Thats what iv been saying.

I think is difficult for a man to fall in love with a lady who is overweight. Unless he can see the thinner lady inside waiting to burst out maybe! I think the problems arise when the trim-figure that he first partnered, graduates to being the fat lady! Then again, he is still more likely to still love the fat lady! I think!

the question is Can he love a skinny woman too? Honestly, men cheat, hurt, break up with, love, marry, all kinds of women; skinny, plumpy, beautiful, ugly, tiny, huge! It doesn't matter about size or looks.

At the end of the day, it's about personalitie and if a woman feels good about herself. Esteem will take you a long way! I truly believe what the bible says, the flesh produces no good thing. If the relationship is just based on that, it won't last for long, too superficial.

Halle Berry is a wonderful actress, but I think she serves as a wonderful example that it takes more than beauty to make a relationship work.

Amen to that! God made us all different because he knew everyone has difference in tastes of how they like and choose their mates.