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myLot reputation of 91/100. shireishou (808)4 years ago

I really want to be a comic maker also a theacher. but my mom obsessed to make her daughter (me and my sister) to become an accounting. T__T I already take mathematric and information tech major at my college (Double degree).
I still made my own manag with my team also got part time as Photoshop teacher at my college.
Do u have opinion what should I do?I already try to explain my dream, but she said "This is poor job." I can;t debate with her. I love her very much and want to see her smile.
Btw, this is my comic. Do U think I able to be good artist?


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hassei_takano (1278) response was accepted on 1/20/2007.
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tags:  dream, parents, comic, dreams, teacher
 
1. myLot reputation of 98/100. blogyourself (1316)   4 years ago

I went to college to be a teacher like my parents wanted me to be. Toward the end it occured to me that it really wasn't my dream in life at all and I quit. Listen to your own heart and not your Mom's. In the end you will follow your dreams no matter what anyone tells you.


myLot reputation of 91/100. shireishou (808)  4 years ago

Thx for your opinion. Some times I'm afraid my decision is wrong.. T___T

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2. myLot reputation of 84/100. Solja420 (1934)   4 years ago

she dosent own your life do what you wanna do


myLot reputation of 91/100. shireishou (808)  4 years ago

Thx a lot
But they will kill me if I said something like that^^
Once again thx a lot for Ur advice

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3. myLot reputation of 61/100. suren2k6cse (2286)   4 years ago

convince your parents.


myLot reputation of 91/100. shireishou (808)  4 years ago

I did try that.... but I think I failed.

Comic maker finance is small here T__T

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4. myLot reputation of 86/100. hassei_takano (1278)   4 years ago

I know Ur feeling ne chan....
Maybe we sould proof to our parents that we able to sucsess with our own dream. ganbate yo ne chan.


myLot reputation of 91/100. shireishou (808)  4 years ago

Thx..... since you are smarter than me, i think mom and dad like you more than I do. T___T


myLot reputation of 91/100. shireishou (808)  4 years ago

thx a lot my lovely sister.
hix hix hix

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. gramaj (255)   4 years ago

Have you taken all your basics? My two children have changed thier minds about thier careers. I think you should keep an open mind and take classes in what makes you happy. Maybe choose classes in both fields and see what intrest you most. Your parents are doin thier best to prepare you for your future. If they believe that you will be more profitable in the accounting field then they will push you in that diection. Explain to them that you have plently of time to explore your options. If they really feel strong about this then maybe you could major one and minor other. You could utilize your talents and intrest to support ($$) yourself now and show them that this is a possible future. Like your part time job, You can't do what they want, this is your choice. Talk with them.


myLot reputation of 86/100. hassei_takano (1278)  4 years ago

Umh.... she took Math and IT major because she like it. And our parents agree with it. She canceled to take art clas because it is too expensive and she doesn't want to make our parents sad.

Thx a lot for Ur sugestion. Sorry she got internet trouble

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. toonatoons (2754)   4 years ago

parents just want the best for their kids, sometimes in their obsession to, they become blinded to what their children desire. maybe your mom feels that you'd have a better future as an accountant. some parents i know force their children to study nursing, because, well, for financial reasons. but i think, in the end, it's your desires that will make you a fulfilled and happy person. so talk to your mom. let her know that why you want to pursue a different course. let her know just how you feel.


myLot reputation of 86/100. hassei_takano (1278)  4 years ago

we knew that.^^ That's why we can't force our dream to them

But we start to think a lot and discuss it. As the first daughter my older sis got responsibility to show a way for me. And I hope whatever 'way' that she choose able to make her and our parents happy

Thx for Ur comment

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7. justsomeguy (73)   4 years ago

Follow your dreams, do what you want to do as it is your life. It's the only way you'll be happy in the end


myLot reputation of 86/100. hassei_takano (1278)  4 years ago

Thx a lot for Ur advice.... hope she will find her happines too. She is melancolic type. She often cry a lone

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8. maitong (4)   4 years ago

in my opinion, there's nothing better than having a job wherein you love what you are doing. ur drawings are great, you'd make a really good comic artist. my suggestion would be to maybe apply for a part-time job as a comic artist just to have enough experience and then maybe when you've saved up enough, you can go full time on that or better yet, conceptualize your own comic and start your own company..=)


myLot reputation of 86/100. hassei_takano (1278)  4 years ago

^^ Thx a lot. but she never confident with her art. She always think that she is a plagiasm. She only follow japanese style and not find her own type

Our parents also said same thing and it make her confident drop

Thx for your suggestion. We plan that also.^^ We want to make dubbing studio.^^ Hope it works.^^

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9. hunk12313 (42)   4 years ago

IF U BELIEVE IN UR SELF, U R NOT TOO FAR FROM UR GOALS .I PERSONALLY BELIEVE DAT U CHOOSE DA FIELD U R INTERETED IN!!!!!!!!!!!!!AND UR MOM SHOULD UNDERSTAND BOUT UR FEELINGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


myLot reputation of 86/100. hassei_takano (1278)  4 years ago

She got big doubt in comic career. In our country that career doesn;t have any good prospect at all.
Umh.. she also want to become voice talent. But it also doen;t give any good income.
It dilematic for us

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10. myLot reputation of 30/100. huyadp (760)   4 years ago

why?,thanks


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