Do you think I'm stupid, what should I do??  

your not stupid. but yea i would just stop. its sad when the best of friends fall apart. but you know its life and soemtimes when you have kids as you know friends come and go. i gave up on alot of my friends too after having my first. they are only interested in drinking. they sometimes ask me if i want to go drinking but if its not money its time. who has either with 2 kids.

I feel sad for you. I know you would have sincerely wanted to have continued friendship you enjoyed but sometimes it is better to let things pass, friends off the hook leave them, let them go their ways, you just can't hold on to them against their wishes. Everybody moves on in life and you would also be able to move on and find new friends who are more caring, understand you better, care for you more, love you more and are there for you always. Please don't feel upset as time heals everything and have faith in god and in yourself things will get better believe me. if you wish i can be that friend, add me to your buddy list and please do cheer up, i can't bear to see you unhappy and i am being honest when i say that.

I feel sad for you. I know you would have sincerely wanted to have continued friendship you enjoyed but sometimes it is better to let things pass, friends off the hook leave them, let them go their ways, you just can't hold on to them against their wishes. Everybody moves on in life and you would also be able to move on and find new friends who are more caring, understand you better, care for you more, love you more and are there for you always. Please don't feel upset as time heals everything and have faith in god and in yourself things will get better believe me. if you wish i can be that friend, add me to your buddy list and please do cheer up, i can't bear to see you unhappy and i am being honest when i say that.

i dun think ur stupid !!!!! so dun do ne thin

i dont know what her thing is but friendships change when you have kids you just never know what way they will turn. but if she wont retrun your calls and you have been maken the effort then i would stop calling. wwith ithy take up any more of your time

My best friend decided she didn't really want to be friends with me after I had kids. She moved away and got mixed up with the wrong crowd and just parties all the time. She is also working in the strip clubs and I tried to help her, but she quit wanting help so I decided it was not the best influence on me and my children. I know it hurts but kids really do change how friendships are viewed.

Jemmifire, It is just a sad reality of life that friends come and go in our lives. We don't always keep the same ones for ever. Some times it happens that you can find one another again.But, it may be that you will just have to be glad for the good times you shared and then move on to someone else to share new experiences with.

u should try to forget the meaning of stupid

no dearie u aint stupid... ur pal seems to be like someone who aint having much confidence in herself or seems to be someone who has some sort of complex... such ppl can never be good pals... they always think tht the whole world is against them!!!
welll u did ur part eh? u tried to keep contact and she aint interested... so i guess ur last step is to send her a msg to her mail or her blogspace and include all ur feelings in it and tell her tht its ur last effort in extending a hand of friend ship... if she doesnt take it, then stop going aftr her.... she doesnt deserve a pal like u then... ok?

just pray to allah