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Long Distance Relationships...Can they work? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 92/100. MySpot (1677)2 years ago

There are two sayings... "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" & "Absence makes the heart wander".

Which do you agree with?

I think whoever came up with those sayings, came up with the 'heart grows fonder' one, but after too long.... changed it to 'wander': )

 
 
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ossie16d (6380) response was accepted on 4/10/2007.
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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. chalmette69 (2385)   2 years ago

I think they can work, but it is hard being so far away, it is just more complicated.

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2. myLot reputation of 84/100. maevic (670)   2 years ago

It's very difficult to have a long distance relationship. Take it from me as I have before with my husband. It's really difficult when you really don't know whom he is with. There's a small chances that long distance relationship will work...in my case we got married but there's some consequences...

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3. myLot reputation of 84/100. maevic (670)   2 years ago

It's very difficult to have a long distance relationship. Take it from me as I have before with my husband. It's really difficult when you really don't know whom he is with. There's a small chances that long distance relationship will work...in my case we got married but there's some consequences...

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4. myLot reputation of 28/100. van123 (1272)   2 years ago

YES

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5. myLot reputation of 83/100. spikyarj (497)   2 years ago

dont think it will ever work...there will be a lack of understanding among people if they are seperated by long distances....


myLot reputation of 92/100. MySpot (1677)  2 years ago

Don't you think that the distance can be helpful in developing more meaningful relationships? There isn't the physical factors, only mental understanding. Sometimes, I think you can get to really know someone better when there is only mental communication between you.

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6. myLot reputation of 77/100. prasanta (837)   2 years ago

I think both are true. I mean instances support both the sayings.

However, in today's world, "Absence makes the heart wander" is most common.

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7. Streethawk (19)   2 years ago

Long distance relationships may or maynot last.it depends on the persons.if both trust eachother then there is no problem


myLot reputation of 77/100. janeefmm (827)  2 years ago

Ya u r correct.

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8. myLot reputation of 49/100. oscarc (858)   2 years ago

i'd go with the second..it's what is practically true..the first one is probably something some crazy poet came up with...


myLot reputation of 92/100. MySpot (1677)  2 years ago

LOL: )

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9. myLot reputation of 46/100. ikponmwosa (111)   2 years ago

It depends on the strength of the relationship & how committed both parties are.


myLot reputation of 92/100. MySpot (1677)  2 years ago

Committment is important for a long distance relationship to survive... or at least a mutual understanding that there is NO committment.

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10. myLot reputation of 90/100. Schubler (1391)   2 years ago

I don`t think these kind of relationship works... If you want to say that you really are in a relationship with someone you would have to meet them betwen 2 and 4 times a week... that`s what the experts say!!!

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