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myLot reputation of 62/100. humaaaa (886) 6 years ago

My friend i wouldn't disclose her name here is going through a great confusion her boy friend who has been with her since a bit long from now, has left caring for her like he did before.
He doesn't talk the her like the way he used to talk before, and use to go deep in talks and tell her everything truth. She says he might not be interested in her anymore or theres some other girl entered in his life or something that he is getting iritated from her.
She has tried to ask her couple of times, that is there anything bad going with him in the relation but he always tells her thers no problem, but still she feels boy is getting away from her.
As she says they have had sex a few times between their relation and now she wants to marry the guy and he tells her the same but from his expressions it doesn't seem he would do that.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. gabs8513 (23375)   6 years ago

Well I think before she marries him that situation needs to be sorted out
And if he doesn't want to then I think she better thinks about things to
To me it sounds like there is someone else

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2. myLot reputation of 88/100. nicelyrom (250)   6 years ago

some guys are like that - quiet and seldom express what they feel - that she should clarify before marrying him.

on the other hand, some guys who don't talk might have something in their heart that they feel is not right. maybe his love for her fades away but he's afraid to her hurt, which is wrong. he should confront the girl what he truly feels.

your friend should accept whatever circumstances may come along. its better like that than love someone who doesn't love her anymore.

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3. myLot reputation of 85/100. cubby1 (4391)   6 years ago

If this guy is seeing someone else; he needs to be honest and come clean.


myLot reputation of 59/100. cloud9 (152)  6 years ago

Your friend should tell her boyfriend how she feels if she thinks and feels that something has changed in the relationship. If her boyfriend is sincere about marrying her, then he should be happy and this should reflect in the relationship. Communication is the best way to resolve this but if the guy would avoid the issue and won't be honest with your friend, then it would be difficult for your friend to know what's wrong.

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4. myLot reputation of 82/100. Mickie30 (2052)   6 years ago

If he doesn't love her then I understand your concern for your friend who you care about. Marriage is a committment not to be taken lightly. I would talk to your friend telling her your concerns.

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5. myLot reputation of 90/100. Mubashar1988 (1325)   6 years ago

so whats now? every thing is done, that boy's purpose was only that he had sex with that girl and then walk away , he has done his work. If both of them interested to make serious relatin like marriage then they should never had sex b4. Now tell her that every thing is Ended and be carefull next time. Being a Pakistani I am very sorry to hear this from you.


myLot reputation of 88/100. imadriscoll (1369)  6 years ago

I think that this is true. There's an old American saying that goes something like this, "Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?" Meaning that some people will use people for what they want if they don't have to make a commitment to the other person.
I hope that this isn't true, but I think that your friends boyfriend won't be around much longer. He's probably working on the next innocent girl to come along.

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6. preethabb (49)   6 years ago

what i feel is that they both should talk frankly, some guys will not say wat they really feel. marriage will not work out if they are not comfortable. she should be ready to accept whatever happens..it means leaving him if he is not really interested. it is really difficult to live with someone who dont love.


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7. myLot reputation of 92/100. Desdemona (895)   6 years ago

Sounds like he has a hidden agenda.

Tell your friend to move on and not waste her time. She can ride it out, but it sounds like he will eventually break her heart.

It's a cold approach, but life is too short to muddle with game players.

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8. myLot reputation of 76/100. coolcager (483)   6 years ago

why? hehe some people really are funny hehehehe

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9. myLot reputation of 83/100. flte74 (715)   6 years ago

If she really feels he is disinterested then she should try to talk to him again if insists nothing is wrong then SHE should tell HIM what she is feeling is wrong.

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10. myLot reputation of 71/100. sharone74 (2521)   6 years ago

There are a lot of other reasons that he could be uncommunicative. If she gives the situation time it will all come out. He may not be ready to talk about what's up but she doesn't neccessarily have another girl to worry about.

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