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myLot reputation of 87/100. MrsAdvice (390)3 years ago

Why is it that everytime I go to the movies I have some idiot behind me that keeps kicking my seat and talking and laughing loudly enough that I miss things being said? Why do people allow their children to talk and kick the seat in front of them at movies? I have a very strict rule when I take my step son to the movies he is not allowed to talk or fidget, I will not allow him to ruin the movie for someone else and he knows that if he talks or fidgets we are leaving immediately so he sits quietly and he watches the movie UNLESS my husband is with us, in which case he will do anything he likes, thus INFLICTING himself upon others and detracting from their enjoyment of the movie, which is why I absolutely refuse to go to the movies with him if my husband is going, I will only take him if I can take him alone because I know if we are alone he will behave. Since I am sooooo strict about it with my own kid, and so courteous to others so that they may enjoy the movie, why is it that when I go to the movies I have to put up with other people's rude kids? I thought what goes around comes around? Should'nt I be able to enjoy a movie in theater without having to miss a bunch of it? I do not like to be confrontational, so when people keep kicking my seat I look around at them, sometimes give them a dirty look, but I don't say anything, but they see me, they know they are bothering me, yet they do it anyway. It makes me want to just wait for the DVD. I think there should be a pre-movie announcement on the screen along with the one that says, "Please turn off your cell phone" there should be a "Please do not talk, laugh loudly and excessively so people miss what is being said next, or kick the seat in front of you and please make sure your children are quiet, well-behaved, and do not kick the seat in front of them and for godsakes, close your mouth on the popcorn!!!!" GRRRRRRR

 
 
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babyhar (1323) response was accepted on 2/16/2007.
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tags:  movie, behavior, kids, popcorn, kick
 
1. myLot reputation of 96/100. suedarr (1523)   3 years ago

Hehe I can relate. Rude people are one of the reasons I rarely go out to see a movie in the theatre anymore. I also find I just can no longer afford the price of movie tickets. I prefer renting DVD films.

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2. Shannanw (13)   3 years ago

I agree with that. I hate going to the movies now a days and its not about the little kids. Its the teenager. They talk and giggle throughout the movie. I even had to walk out a get my money back one time. So yes I feel your pain. My son fidgets a little but at least he does not kick the back of peoples seats and talks loudly. He may comment a little but that is ok. I just wait for the DVD too myself.

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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. babyhar (1323)   3 years ago

My other half & me have actually stopped going to go & see a movie at the theatres because the way people act really irritates us. It's difficult to watch a movie when the people around you just came to giggle with there friends, or try to talk on there cell phone while a movie is playing.
We've had to many bad experiences with people just acting rather immature.

I honestly can't state which annoys me more, but I have a tendency to go off on people who do any of these things during the movie I have paid to come & see.. Once I actually told someone to stop opening there cell phone (people kept calling this girl's cell phone or she'd keep opening it up & then this bright blue light would be flashing in our direction.) I ended up saying loudly "Why bring a cell phone to a movie theatre? Didn't you pay to see the movie?" and these young teenagers beside us.. Began laughing uncontrollably. Keep in mind we we're there watching a horror film.. Wow what a great way to ruin the movie in general eh?! . .

Another time my other half & me went to watch a movie.. I forget which one it was exactly.. But.. These people sat in-front of my other half.. And they we're eating some form of greasy food.. We could really smell it.. And they kept licking their fingers & making all of this noise for no reason at all.. After that we just started waiting for a movie to come out to rent.. We just couldn't handle the way people we're acting each & every time we decided to go & see a movie in the theatre.. Having to be around any of this behavior would make anyone NOT want to come back to the theatre..

So I understand completely how you feel when it comes to this matter.. I as well wish they'd flash a screen saying for people to turn off there cell phones, & not to talk to loudly & so forth.." I think they should make a rule that if people are being to noisy that they should be kicked out.. If it is bothering other people to much.. Maybe then people would actually be able to enjoy a half decent movie every once in a while that they paid to go & see.. Next time we decide to go to a theatre & all of this happens again.. I'm definitely going to be talking to a manager..

Thank you for bringing up this topic.. As I can understand where you are coming from since I have been there myself.. At least you have taught your step son well.. And taught him to not talk or make to much noise at a theatre.. To respect the people around him.. That's how I would be teaching my children as well when that time comes.

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4. myLot reputation of 89/100. shooie (3548)   3 years ago

Guess is good we don't live in the same town and go to the same movie house. I wouldn't be the one kicking your seat but if the movie is funny I'm gunna laugh. My husband laughs a lot at the movies. When I go I've had popcorn tossed on me have gotten stepped on and kids going in and out. Once in awhile it does bug me but normally no. I figure some movies kids are made to come or parents assume the kid wants to see it and they really don't. If it is a kids movie I think kids should be allowed to laugh and yell at the bad guy on the screen. Kids should be allowed to be kids. Don't you think?


myLot reputation of 87/100. MrsAdvice (390)  3 years ago

I did not say I had a problem with laughing. I said laughing loudly and excessively. My step son used to do this, before I taught him not to. He would laugh, uproariously, and laugh and laugh and laugh so that the next six or seven things that were said were missed. It's funny how people who don't want to do their duty and teach children how to be adults always use the excuse that kids should be allowed to be kids. What is a kid? A kid is an adult in training and it is OUR job, as parents, to TEACH our children how to be adults or they will grow up to be inconsiderate, selfish, childish adults (big kids) When a kid is home, playing with his toys, let him have fun and be a kid, but when you are out in the world, it is your job as a parent to teach the child how to behave so that people who paid to see a movie can enjoy it also. A child should never be allowed to INFLICT himself on adults. I know a boy who kept stomping on my dad's foot at Disney World when we were in line for a ride. This happened over and over, the parents would apologize but the boy would continue to hop up and down until he stomped on my dad's foot again. This is a perfect example of a child inflicting himself on an adult. It is the parent's job NOT to allow this, but since the parents failed in their mission, my dad, having had enough after having his foot stomped on several times, stepped down hard on the boy's foot, pressing his full weight, hard. He then said, "Oh, I'm sorry!" to the parents and amazingly, the boy stopped stepping on my dad's foot. Lesson learned. My dad did that boy more favors than his mousy parents did that day!

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5. myLot reputation of 92/100. monie2boys (129)   3 years ago

That's why I hate to go to a popular movie when it first comes out. I hate to be in a crowded theater. And why in the world do people sit right next to you when there is plenty of room? I don't get that.

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