live in realationship before marriage

you were fortunate and lucky in it, but when it does not work out then there will a mental breakdown on any of the partner, so it is tough

In my first living together relationship we broke and I and she don´t get down because of it,it´s life.

Immorality in any form is bad before marriage, the bible condems it, now knowing the nature of a person his habits are important but doesn't mean that if you are involved in a physical relationship you will know the person better, by being a friend and having a pure realationship you can find out whether the person is worth marrying,it is also mentioned in the bible that if your passions are strong enough go ahead and marry no need to live without commitment and feel used up when it fails, anyway it is accepted in Western society but In Indain culture still it is not accepted.