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would u cheat on your spouse if you knew he/she was cheating? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 88/100. cutieissa (225)   ranked 1 out of 19 in closer3 years ago

if u have watched the movie CLOSER, starring julia roberts + jude law + clive owen + natalie portman, julia and owen are a happily married working couple when jude law so rudely interrupted their lives by having an affair w/ julia. clive, in response, seduced natalie who was jude's amour. the end-result? clive & julia ended back together though w/ some tension while jude & natalie's relationship lay in shambles. my question is: is it right to punish a cheating spouse by cheating also? and would u cheat on your spouse if you knew he/she was cheating?

 
 
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tags:  cheating, relationship, love, relationships, revenge
 
1. myLot reputation of 91/100. sudhajan (947)   ranked 8 out of 19 in closer   3 years ago

i never chaeted my partner and i dont like it


myLot reputation of 88/100. cutieissa (225)   ranked 1 out of 19 in closer  3 years ago

im glad to hear that

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2. myLot reputation of 85/100. chiquitita (766)   ranked 19 out of 19 in closer   3 years ago

Maybe it's good for a revenge, but I wouldnt do it. If that happens to me, I'll leave him for sure, find someone new and start a new beautiful life. I wont cheat on him back because that will make me the same culprit as him. No.. lol


myLot reputation of 88/100. cutieissa (225)   ranked 1 out of 19 in closer  3 years ago

yeah, lol! thats the best way to go.. but u know how movies are, they overdramatize things=)

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. linzmcwilliams (1121)   ranked 6 out of 19 in closer   3 years ago

I love that movie and you've raised an interesting issue. I think I probably would though I would like to think I would be "bigger" than that. It would be the perfect revenge but I wouldn't do it if I wanted to stay with them.


myLot reputation of 88/100. cutieissa (225)   ranked 1 out of 19 in closer  3 years ago

hahaha! now there's a*bad girl* but yes, it would be the perfect revenge and of course, u leave them all crying and you towards a new life


myLot reputation of 92/100. kitakitts (150)   ranked 14 out of 19 in closer  3 years ago

and besides it will not solve your problem with your husband. it might make you feel a little better having him taste his own medicine but then again, its just plain wrong so i'm not into cheating for revenge thing:)


myLot reputation of 88/100. cutieissa (225)   ranked 1 out of 19 in closer  3 years ago

good for u! me, well, u know me.. hehe

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4. irallyn (35)   ranked 18 out of 19 in closer   3 years ago

no i wont.. its his loss not mine.. hehehe welcome here


myLot reputation of 88/100. cutieissa (225)   ranked 1 out of 19 in closer  3 years ago

thanks!=)

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5. MDforlife (38)   ranked 13 out of 19 in closer   3 years ago

well, well what an interesting question! if im in a vengeful mood, perhaps id do that. but probably i'll just let it go and get on with my life. if she cheats on me, the spouse is not worth keeping. its her loss, not mine


myLot reputation of 88/100. cutieissa (225)   ranked 1 out of 19 in closer  3 years ago

very well said! are u a guy or girl?

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6. myLot reputation of 49/100. ngchunyi (131)   ranked 9 out of 19 in closer   3 years ago

Nope, I mean seriously, what makes you better if you can have your revenge by cheating on your spouse if you know he/she is or was cheating on you?


myLot reputation of 88/100. cutieissa (225)   ranked 1 out of 19 in closer  3 years ago

its not a question of being "better" but of revenge.. inflict pain as he had inflicted on u. lol

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. totallyundecided (478)   ranked 11 out of 19 in closer   3 years ago

don't get mad, get even.


myLot reputation of 88/100. cutieissa (225)   ranked 1 out of 19 in closer  3 years ago

hahaha!:p revenge is a dish best served cold, lol


dadamuo (21)   ranked 17 out of 19 in closer  3 years ago

Then again, being wronged is also a way of widening the horizon of our vulnerability en route to finding the deepest source of our strength. I guess, the burden then shifts to the one who betrayed us while also making him/her come to grips with his/her conscience.


myLot reputation of 88/100. cutieissa (225)   ranked 1 out of 19 in closer  3 years ago

wow, thats deep;p

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8. myLot reputation of 100/100. joyce959 (1279)   ranked 10 out of 19 in closer   3 years ago

No, I will not retaliate back by cheating when I found out that my spouse is cheating on me. That will just lead to more complicated situation and problems. I would rather talk to my spouse, ask why he cheated on me, see if things can be patched up or can be sorted between us. I would rather make some steps to save the relationship.
Retaliating by cheating on a cheating spouse would only just 'add wounds to the injuries'.


myLot reputation of 88/100. cutieissa (225)   ranked 1 out of 19 in closer  3 years ago

wow! you are sooo good..=)

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9. myLot reputation of 99/100. linzmcwilliams (1121)   ranked 6 out of 19 in closer   3 years ago

I would because i would have no intention of staying with them if they cheated on me. Though i would probably just break up with them first.


myLot reputation of 88/100. cutieissa (225)   ranked 1 out of 19 in closer  3 years ago

lol, go girl!

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10. elusive01 (42)   ranked 15 out of 19 in closer   3 years ago

julia and jude met first.. jude just happened to play a prank on clive and set him up with julia..but then that's digressing... if i ever found out my spouse is cheating on me, i would prolly seriously consider giving him a dose of his own medicine.. but then aain, there's a lot of factors before i finally DO the final act: the cheating.. and i must make sure that he discovers me cheating on him.. hahaha.. ionno.. it's mean..:)


myLot reputation of 88/100. cutieissa (225)   ranked 1 out of 19 in closer  3 years ago

well, let me know what you'll do when the time comes. LOL

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