TIME TO GROW

time to grow. i'm 21 years old and i think i'm matured enough to understand things in life.
in most cases, parents are having hard time implementing discipline inside the house or as we call it house rules. what about it? some people i know, their parents will be one who'll decide with the course that they should study in college. their are parents that will chose the guy "right" for their daugthers. why? i don't know. they are scared. yes they are but it's not the way showing you fears that one day you daugther might commit the same mistake that you did. parents are always telling their children that they just want the best for them. best? what is best for them? well, sometimes we just get tired of figthing over our rights and the way we believe in will just turn into hopes. in silence, we are always wondering how to figure out life. teens will have fun as long as they want. they won't get tired as long as theirs cigar and beers. party is what we call it! fun fun fun! when get a little bit older your views and understanding with things will either get worst or confusing. the roots of it is on how your parents brought you up and how responded on how your parents brought you. their is big difference between thinking and doing. so, the thing here is if a child grow up in a happy, loving and family-oriented home... good! but we can still see a little of disfuntional regarding with behavior and seeing new culture, lifestyle and world. how do you deal with all the new things, interesting and all the curiousity in life that brings. whew! it doesn't mean your an idiot if you try to know that curiosity. making mistakes means learning to know things and learning to know yourself. about everything. people make mistakes. don't pretend to be another person. be who you are. mingle with different people and balance your thoughts. how to balance it? try to imagine putting yourself into someone else's stand or place. everyone of us experience what other people expereinced. it's a matter of time. right time. we have a lot of time. plenty of time. but you need to consume it wisely. how again? by living everyday like the last day here on earth. make good things. if you are not the mood, don't go out with people you don't like. instead, you get some sleep, you rest. when you wake up, you realize that sleeping will cure your insecurity. just do it. stop asking. but have a lot of questions in mind. trust me it will help you find answers.
confusing? nahh.. just getting started.

Take care people.