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bnbond (5)4 years ago

I have been talking to different people about their childhood experiences with the holidays. I really cannot remember what age I knew for sure that Santa was a fictional character. I know children that are 4 and know Santa is not real. But I also have seen 12 year olds that still believe that the letter they get in the mail is actually from Santa. This brings me to wonder is there a certain age you should tell your children that Santa is not real (if they dont find out)? If that age has not been reached yet and the child still believes should you make sure they continue with the belief...make sure you tell them there is a Santa when they say there isnt?

 
 
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thinkingoutloud (2458) response was accepted on 12/22/2006.
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1. myLot reputation of 92/100. amafrias (321)   4 years ago

Well eventually someone at school is going to tell them.But me as a parent am not going to tell them anything. They can fake it with me for as long as they want. My sister and I knew long before we finally told my daddy we knew. He was so into Christmas and doing Santa, and we were so into accepting it...We all just kept quiet for a few years..lol we did have a baby brother that we didn't want to spoil it for either..


myLot reputation of 94/100. DeeBloomers (533)  4 years ago

You are right, as soon as they start school someone will tell them, but usually they will fake it for a while, the reason could be that maybe they have younger siblings or maybe they think if they tell their parents they won't get as many gifts, or maybe just because they like the magical feeling that it gives them to believe in Santa, but I think you should let them come to you with the news and not spoil it for them too soon.


myLot reputation of 42/100. smbilalshah (1151)  4 years ago

2 solutions
1 u never tell them n make em fantacise about santa n always tell em its a stupid thing
2nd u never tell em the truth theyll automatically get to know it n then look back at it n laugh

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. thinkingoutloud (2458)   4 years ago

Hi bnbond:) I never actually told my kids that Santa wasn't real... they are now 13 and 16 and they laugh at me because I say that I still believe in Santa Claus and I always will. You see, I always told them that they definitely have a Santa and that Santa loves them. That, in and of itself, is the truth:)

I don't think it's necessary to make confirmations with kids. They will believe until they don't. I don't feel that we have to take it as our responsibility to sway them, either way. For instance, my niece didn't believe in Santa when she was 7 but now she's 8 and she is back to believing again. In fact, she told me when she slept over recently that some of her friends don't believe -- so she's going to "fake sleep" near the Christmas tree so she can take his picture when he arrives and she'll be able to show her friends that he's real LOL

I made sure to remind her that "he sees her when she's sleeping and he knows when she's awake..." -- she assures me that she is a GOOD fake sleeper but she says she'll go to bed on time :)

We all have to just do what feels right... and for me, it feels right to believe.

Happy Holidays to you and yours!


myLot reputation of 92/100. amafrias (321)  4 years ago

Very well said. Exactly how I grew up, and I want my kids to grow up also.


myLot reputation of 93/100. BittyBiddy (1083)  4 years ago

SANTA'S NOT REAL????????????

 

myLot reputation of 99/100. thinkingoutloud (2458)  4 years ago

LOL... I BELIEVE!!!!!!! :)

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3. kellifly11 (73)   4 years ago

Wow I posted a topic just a second ago about the same thing and this was down at the bottom as a related topic when I finished, sorry! But I can reply to yours, how about that? I think maybe sooner rather than later. I think they will find out at school anyways and I would rather me be the one to tell them. I dont think there is anything wrong with kids knowing we are the ones giving them presents. I actually think that is better for them and will teach them more than believing in a fictional character. I respect the tradition though and it is fun and cute for the young ones so I will not object to it.

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4. myLot reputation of 28/100. anja31 (715)   4 years ago

in my opinion I should never tell my children that santa is not real.


myLot reputation of 30/100. s1payz (133)  4 years ago

I think you are good too ..for never tell my children that santa is not real

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5. myLot reputation of 94/100. stailgate (2280)   4 years ago

Let them discover it for themselves... It's all a part of being a kid believeing in Santa. Don't push it or you could scar them for life.

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. Lakota12 (17209)   4 years ago

kids finally figure it all out if they are not told by some one I let my parents think I beleived for a long time for it was just fun to believe

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7. myLot reputation of 58/100. Leonzz (199)   4 years ago

I think on eight, kid have to know something about reality and fantasy. If dont, him will not believe in somethings at his life.

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8. lukesmama (5)   4 years ago

I know children who still believed at 10, or at least were still hanging on to the belief.
I don't think there is a right age for them to find out, it usually just happens naturally.
When an older child still believes, I think they just don't want to let go of the magic they believed in... who does!

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9. myLot reputation of 62/100. Nakisz0r (107)   4 years ago

talk when he have 7 or 8 years old

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10. myLot reputation of 84/100. djshocker (258)   4 years ago

Isn't there a story of a real St. Nick that did go around delivering Christmas presents in some country? He didn't go down chiminey's I don't think but there is something that tells that story. I will have to Google it right along with everything else I Google LOL


m4ndr4k3 (67)  4 years ago

they will discover the true by themself

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