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Do Men Like a Sex Kitten or a Wholesome Lady  email this discussion to a friend?

kumikosuzuki83 (73)   ranked 2,225 out of 19,211 in relationships 6 years ago

Sometimes I see many beautiful women walking down the street wearing next to nothing! I think it doesn't look so good, but many men seem to stare and smile. Are men attracted to this?

I've always thought of myself as quite wholesome, but when I walk down the street, men don't stare and smile like they do to the girls in short skirts. Should I change my style to be more of a "sex kitten"?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 73/100. Janono630 (212)   6 years ago

a lady in the street but a freak in the bed is the way to go baby!!!


myLot reputation of 83/100. mom2rottie (516)   ranked 3,481 out of 19,211 in relationships  6 years ago

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myLot reputation of 6/100. jawanza (602)  6 years ago

one day i seen a lady walk down the street with nothing but her bra and panties i almost fainted not because i was shocked or suprised but because the amount of blood rushing to my d*ck


myLot reputation of 82/100. msqtech (14379)   ranked 343 out of 19,211 in relationships  6 years ago

I want my girl to be happy at home not in public showing private things


myLot reputation of 24/100. aditya007 (158)  6 years ago

I don't hav that exprience.

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2. myLot reputation of 88/100. ksstormhunter (617)   ranked 8,489 out of 19,211 in relationships   6 years ago

If you have a nice body, might as well show it off, and us men for the most part appreciate a nice trim body, it is just in our nature. but for you to change to that, it is up to you, what do you feel most comfortable with, just because everyone else is doing it, does not mean you have to do it. Plus there are just as many men who apprecaite a wholesame lady.


myLot reputation of 74/100. lulylove (1411)  6 years ago

I think that you have reason, but you must be you above of everything! Therefore he does not advance to try to please the men and not to be pleasing sí same.

I think that you must love yourself and be happy as you, therefore thus outyras people had also liked you for whom you it is and not for that it makes look like to be.

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. James72 (7104)   ranked 102 out of 19,211 in relationships   6 years ago

I think that men notice this because it is in our "programming" to do so! But would we want our lady to be this way? Sometimes maybe but only for us! I think that most men would admit that when it comes to their partner they would lean towards the wholesome side of things because it is ultimately safer. A beautiful woman walking down the street wearing next to nothing fulfils the fantasy side of things for most men but it is only temporary. As for your style, you should do whatever makes you comfortable. Someone will (or already does!) love you for who you are and for you as a whole not just by the way you dress.


myLot reputation of 71/100. chetu4u (335)   ranked 15,970 out of 19,211 in relationships  6 years ago

I agree with you... Just try be urself...


myLot reputation of 92/100. cuterose (678)   ranked 1,396 out of 19,211 in relationships  6 years ago

well said james.i think every man wants his girl to be his own possession. u be wat u are. definitely somebody out there would hav already started loving u for wat u are now.so dont even think of dressing up like a sexy kitten. forget it.

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4. myLot reputation of 79/100. pHr0sT (371)   ranked 6,727 out of 19,211 in relationships   6 years ago

First off, I don't think you should change your style, be who you are. It's okay to show off some skin once in a while but don't go overboard. Then you will look like a sl*t or a sk*nk, and trust me that's not what you want. You may attract more stares, but the wrong type of men. These men will want you just for your body. Be true to yourself, don't change for men. if men see this in you, they should have no problem in coming up to talk to you. These will be the men that like you for you and not just because of how much skin you are showing.


kumikosuzuki83 (73)   ranked 2,225 out of 19,211 in relationships  6 years ago

sorry....what is a sk*nk? my imagination is a smelly animal?


myLot reputation of 79/100. pHr0sT (371)   ranked 6,727 out of 19,211 in relationships  6 years ago

close :P try adding an 'a' instead...


andaismu (64)   ranked 3,527 out of 19,211 in relationships  6 years ago

yup , I agree with you , I'm a man and told you not all men like to see a woman with short skirt or else, but why a lot of men stare at them cause they just want to have some fun, if men interest with women like that , I'm sure 100% they just want to F**k , right? after that just let her go , and for serious relationship all men should think first .....

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5. paulyn (52)   ranked 1,590 out of 19,211 in relationships   6 years ago

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6. myLot reputation of 3/100. farmboss1 (857)   6 years ago

aaah man this sux...i had responded to your post and went to send it and the screen went white .

it was a nice post too.

sorry it wasnt my fault.


myLot reputation of 3/100. farmboss1 (857)  6 years ago

maybe this will work...your a pretty girl...and the girl that you talk about in your post wants a nice relationship too..!

everybody does..!

and i'm sure you look good and hot in certain clothes too,so don't be so apprehensive,it's ok to be lonely,really.

being lonely and being in a bad relationship too is much worse.


myLot reputation of 79/100. pHr0sT (371)   ranked 6,727 out of 19,211 in relationships  6 years ago

Same thing happened to me. It turned out that you can't use swear words like sl*t and what not, just hit preview comment and it will show you which words not to use!


myLot reputation of 97/100. AskAlly (2978)   ranked 5,182 out of 19,211 in relationships  6 years ago

Just a little bit of motherly advice. I raised 5 boys. I know the kind of girl they dated were not the women they ended up marrying.
My daughters in law are very classy and well educated women. Not the "shinnies" they brought home for weekends only.

PS If my boys are anything like their father they are having a good time in the sack as well. (Yuck what a thing for a mom to say)


myLot reputation of 83/100. rash219 (554)  6 years ago

its possible to use word like sl*t if the person who started the discussion has accepted the use of mature content in her profile...

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7. myLot reputation of 70/100. jaizdeep (345)   ranked 6,593 out of 19,211 in relationships   6 years ago

It is not about being a sex kitten men are admirers of beauty
yes they sometimes would pay more attention to a girl ewearing next to nothing but it is just for a little fun
but when it is selecting partners for a lifetime it is definitely a wholesome lady
Looking staring and smiling are just to admire a womans confidence and her beauty not every women can have those guts to walk down the street with mini skirts and next to nothing tops

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8. myLot reputation of 70/100. jaizdeep (345)   ranked 6,593 out of 19,211 in relationships   6 years ago

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9. myLot reputation of 85/100. setancrew (2645)   6 years ago

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10. myLot reputation of 83/100. rash219 (554)   6 years ago

ok im a guy and yes i will agree to the fact that i would stare at such ladies on the street but then at that moment in mind would be flashing the word "SEX".......the truth is a man think of sex every minute.....i remeber answering 1 of ur previous questions on relationship....well considering the fact on relationship it would jus be a one time thing....if i wanted to fall in love i would prefer a wholesome lady anytime...

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