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hey i am very much saturated with my parents please tell me wat should i do email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 87/100. sireesuccess (903)3 years ago

i am in dailema with my parents in my marriage praposal.4m my childhood i and my cousin were in love but we never expressed each other.last year my parents only asked him that u marry my daughter and i to said yes coz i to love him.so at startings days they agreed and then my aunty and uncle made marraige for us in a temple that they said if ur parents again say no it will b safe if u get marry.so we got married. his relatives one who hates him said bad to my parents now my parents r denying the praposal.but we love each other we r ready to die together.but we have no plans of going out.even thought his parents love me a lotand allow me if i come out right now.but we r not willing to do so.problem is from my parents.now wat should i do.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 72/100. Akeela (1124)   3 years ago

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myLot reputation of 87/100. sireesuccess (903)  3 years ago

i am facing hell here.i have no friends also to share


myLot reputation of 81/100. msqtech (14401)  3 years ago

It isnt incest unless it is a direct family member


myLot reputation of 87/100. sireesuccess (903)  3 years ago

the one whom i love is my mother's brother son.so he is not my cousin brother .he is just my cousin


myLot reputation of 85/100. mysiraylon (669)  3 years ago

I f you still value your parents, then avoid your mother's brother son, although you said you love him. There will be a big conflict later in life for both of you and your relations with your own family... Try to understand the word Sacrifice for sake of others... (your parents)!

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2. myLot reputation of 81/100. msqtech (14401)   3 years ago

I think you should just tell them it is to late make it work and be happy


myLot reputation of 87/100. sireesuccess (903)  3 years ago

till now i am controlling coz they r my parents and i am respecting their words.till now .but i am in confusion how to convience them

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. mythmoh (3557)   3 years ago

why dont you ask a common relative of both to deal with this situation.he/she should be able to convince your parents and hope they can believe them as he/she is known to them.I think your mom will understand your situation more than your father.so try to express about yourself to your mom.then leave it your mom to make your father to accept.


myLot reputation of 88/100. 104090 (324)  3 years ago

This is very practical idea to solve this problem. myLot discussions are not only for money here. This is an elderly advice


myLot reputation of 87/100. sireesuccess (903)  3 years ago

we had come across all those but all were failed.my parents say one word to them that this is the problem of our family so i dont want any one interference even to my grandfather he said the same so all went aside.actually i have no suppport from myside bcoz all very afriad of my dad.i am all alone here

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4. myLot reputation of 88/100. 104090 (324)   3 years ago

You and your parents are ok. But you only have to decide what is right what is good for your bright future. So sit with your parents talk freely


myLot reputation of 87/100. sireesuccess (903)  3 years ago

we decided only to convience my parents at anycost.but not going out even thought my mother in law said i will b by ur side and i will take care of all if anything happens adversly.but we both dont like to do so.and we talked to my parents many times even thought they r scolding my husband and my mother in law they kept their mouths shut.but he love me so much. and i have no father in law he is dead.and his last desire is we should get married.coz 4m childhood he loves me a lot and he want me as daughter in law

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5. myLot reputation of 69/100. arun057 (189)   3 years ago

Hey come on... its your parents!!! They have to understand and i think they will!! all you have to do is have a nice chat with them... that is all!!! All the best


myLot reputation of 87/100. sireesuccess (903)  3 years ago

s i have talked to them many times.as my dad is an advocate no one can argue with him.so its all waste of my time till now.i have one brother elder but he never cares of me r our household matters. ia mhelpless and i am all alone to handle here

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6. myLot reputation of 64/100. anilcute (211)   3 years ago

Express your love soon so that atleast you find love with your cousin


myLot reputation of 87/100. sireesuccess (903)  3 years ago

actually i didnot get u.we both were in contact through gmail chat.and he takes care of me as a child.but my parents dont know that we r in contact.and i send informations if emergency with my cousin sisters and some girls in my flats.as since i am in house arrest

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7. helpingminds (66)   3 years ago

I know it is very painful and I also understand what you are going through now! I think the only possibility to get a solution to this is to talk to your parent and tell them how much you need him!! Also try making his parent come home and talk to your dad and mom so that every one will come to a conclusion! But dont get confused for this!

Life is always a challenge! Just MEET IT!!


myLot reputation of 87/100. sireesuccess (903)  3 years ago

i have crossed all those.they parents,grnad father and his elder sister and her husband all came and spoke to my parents .but there is no use at all.even thought they r our relatives my mum said get out of my house.but they r such cool.they want me their daughter in law still

 
8. VMKUMAR (37)   3 years ago

Dnt take decisions such as Dying together...Try 2 convince ur activities saying ur Lover's gud activities...They may b convinced...and u will b married with ur lover....All the best


myLot reputation of 87/100. sireesuccess (903)  3 years ago

we tried in all such ways but it didnt worked out.i had only one belief we got married in presence of god.so we left everything to god.

 
9. myLot reputation of 54/100. ksravikumar (143)   3 years ago

hi siri,
in many countries marrying cousin is crime.we call it as incest marriages.
its also crime in india.
but in india bro n sis,bro n cousin,like different combinations of real incest sex r happening.i have got it from one of my online frd.
at present marrying cousin is not a problem at all.but problem with u the generation that u r giving birth.i.e, u r childrens.

due to same type of parental zeans in both of cousin n u,your childrens will affect by some problems like physical n mental dissabilities,maturity..like problems
so b4 getting marriage vth your cousin first both of u consult a doctor.

suicide is foolish thing.nobody can't stop such people.u can stop them at this time but they will commit suicide some another day.

so,think ....think....thinkkk.


myLot reputation of 87/100. sireesuccess (903)  3 years ago

hey ur totally mistaken the about the relation.the one whom i love is my mother's brother son.now i think u got it.


myLot reputation of 54/100. ksravikumar (143)  3 years ago

i have totally mistaken my dear friend
so,sorry for that

 
10. myLot reputation of 75/100. sudhir60875 (160)   3 years ago

Hey siree,

U name suggest that u r the godess of wealth...Now let me say u something..Just get relaxed first and dont panic to the situation..and now think wht have u done to ur self...U stated that ur parents aked ur cousin to marry u then wht has made u to get marry him without the knowledge of ur parents...?ok.baba..! i can understand..Pyaar meh to sabh kuch chaltha hai...but think wisely...I dont ask u to get out of ur home...but speak to parents,family members,friends,relatives,...and put all of them infront of ur parents...I think they might be angry only in regard of u getting marriage in a temple..This shows how much they love u dear..Now dont panic ...just go to ur father and say him that u had made a mistake in getting married with him in a temple and also tell him how much u love him and seek his own advice in this regard..I am damn sure that he never says no...and he is ur father baba...not a villian in a movie..right...! do it and if any issues please let me know so that i can assit u much better...


myLot reputation of 87/100. sireesuccess (903)  3 years ago

not only my self we both touch my fathers foot and said that we done a mistake.so please excuse us.and right now they r not allowing my friends family members r anyother to communicate with me.


myLot reputation of 87/100. sireesuccess (903)  3 years ago

wat made us marry is from childhood we love each other and my parents have changing minds.so my uncle and aunty suggested that we all b with u so once u got married if ur parents mind changes also its not a problem we can convience them by saying the situation.

 
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