Do you have a secret life or pleasure that your spouse doesn't know about?  

I do not keep any secrets from my partner on purpose. However, sometimes topics do not come up. That doesn't mean I am hiding things from him.
I feel if you have to "hide" something from the person you are with, then you shouldn't be with that said person. Relationships are all about honesty and blending two people's lives. How can you do that if you aren't honest about an aspect of life that you are attempting to blend together?

i think that it is only being dishonest if it is a serious pressure on your relationship, something which interferes and that you have to lie about or create suspision when questioned about where you are going or what you are going to do.
i have a few things that i merely dont talk to my gf about, such things like what i have done in my past with other girls and the things that i have enjoyed with them. purely because i know that she would not be appreciative to this information as i had tryed to mention it beforehand.

khris

The only secret is that I still think, and dream about my first love. I think about another one of my ex's as well. I wonder if all the time

I guess it's a good thing to say, I don't have a secret life or pleasure that my spouse doesn't know about.

Since we've been together for so many years, there's very little we don't already know about each other.

If I did have a secret life, I think it would be the worst form of lying. I would never want to chance that kind of loss.

I guess so, but it isn't that grave. Sometimes I will ask him to go to the store in the evening and get me a treat of Reeses's Peanut Butter Cups. The dishonest part comes in where sometimes I have already stopped at the store and gotten one for myself!

I must come clean. I do happen to have a secret pleasure, however if I told it then it would no longer be a secret, & may result in it no loger being a pleasure. Hmmmmmmmmm, Oh, I just thought of a new one, so I guess I can share the first one I was referring to......... I luv to watch you when you sleep, I can look at you for minutes/Hours at a time & just simply reflect back on the past few years of our relationship. It explains why I luv you so much today:-)