Cheating, What Type of Person

The type of person who cheats is a very insecure person. Someone who doesn't have the courage to walk away from a relationship that clearly makes them unhappy. They want the ebst of both world's rather than face losing the main person and being alone. Every hear the phrase, "Why throw out the old sneakers before you get new ones?" That is basically the philosophy. I should know. I used to cheat. Didn't sleep with someone else. But did some inappropriate making out. I'm married now and the thought of the same behavior from my past makes me sick. The difference, I've grown up...grown more secure...and have the right person for me,

Cheating, time consuming? Absolutely! Before I married my husband we of course were dating, he was what you could call a "player". He did not limit himself to any amount of girls he could take out. I once asked him if he would ever cheat on me while we were married (and believe me he had to do alot of personal growth before we got married). He said to me no way, you take up way too much of my time! I also have a friend that is staying with us while he is going through a divorce. The whole time he was married he was never unfaithful, she on the other hand had a two year secret relationship with a co worker. Now he is dating several women at a time, giving them all the impression that they are the only one he is seeing. I then have to laugh when he finds one that he thinks is the ONE and he goes and breaks off all other relationships and she turns out to not want a serious relationship with him. Karma!! But he still goes out and does it again, because "his wife did it to me so I can do it to other". When he told me that I looked at him and said "well you just lost my respect." Hopefully one day all cheaters will learn their lesson the hard way!!!