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myLot reputation of 71/100. bobbyjoe143 (870) 6 years ago

if you have children, did you ever feel that you got the wrong one?
i don't mean like they were switched at birth or anything, more a case of the wrong sex.

when i was pregnant, i told anyone who asked that i wasn't bothered if i had a boy or a girl, so long as they were healthy and this was true in a sence, but i most definately had my heart set on a girl!

throughout my pregnancy, i truely believed i was carrying a girl, i only chose a girls name, but i did buy unisex clothing (no pink or blue).

as it worked out, i had a son, i actually felt somewhat cheated, and had to think fast as to what i could call him as katarina just wouldn't go down to well as he got older...

i love him dearly of course, and wouldn't actually change him for the world, but truely, have you ever felt like you have the wrong child?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. maximax8 (17638)   3 years ago

I know some ladies that are suffering from gender disappointment. One lady had six sons and then tried to have a girl. However she had a boy. She went to Turkey to special medical treatment that gave her triplet girls. Another few ladies tried to have girl and achieved it. My first child is a boy and I was hoping then to have a girl but I got another boy. The third time I got a girl. I love all my children dearly.

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