wrong child?

if you have children, did you ever feel that you got the wrong one?
i don't mean like they were switched at birth or anything, more a case of the wrong sex.

when i was pregnant, i told anyone who asked that i wasn't bothered if i had a boy or a girl, so long as they were healthy and this was true in a sence, but i most definately had my heart set on a girl!

throughout my pregnancy, i truely believed i was carrying a girl, i only chose a girls name, but i did buy unisex clothing (no pink or blue).

as it worked out, i had a son, i actually felt somewhat cheated, and had to think fast as to what i could call him as katarina just wouldn't go down to well as he got older...

i love him dearly of course, and wouldn't actually change him for the world, but truely, have you ever felt like you have the wrong child?