My mother-in-law thinks Barbie is a bad influence for my daughter...
@ladymoonstone143 (1507)
United States
January 18, 2007 11:45am CST
My 2 1/2 is starting to get fascinated with Barbie and is watching all these Barbie DVD's but my mother in law thinks Barbie is bad influence because she might make my daughter thinks that you have to grow up like Barbie thin and pretty. I don't see any harm on it because I think my daughter will outgrow this like she outgrows Wiggles, etc. I am also vigilant on what she is watching. What are your thoughts on this?
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@emeraldisle (13138)
• United States
19 Jan 07
I don't think you have to worry. I think most girls now a days play with barbies. I know my neice did and trust me she doesn't look anything like barbie. At two and half all your daughter knows is she likes the stories and playing with the doll. When she's older you can explain if need be that people come in all sizes and types. let her enjoy her childhood while she can and don't worry about your mother-in-law.
@misskatonic (3722)
• United States
18 Jan 07
As long as you explain to your daughter that real women don't look like Barbie, there shouldn't be any problem. Kids aren't as impressionable as a lot of people think. They do listen to what they're told and they do pay attention as long as those lessons are reinforced. Barbie is not to blame for women with body issues, it's the media and the models that are strutted about everywhere we go.
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@chertsy (3797)
• United States
3 Feb 07
If your mother in law thinks Barbie was bad. I hate to see what she thinks of the Bratz dolls, lol. I don't see the big deal with Barbie. My girls plays with barbies and bratz, and they could care less about there size. Makeup and clothes, that's a different story all together.
@marief2rnurse (2704)
• United States
31 Jan 07
There's nothing wrong with Barbie. Your little girl is too young to think she needs to look like Barbie. I'm sure right now she's just fascinated to see a doll speak and move. My kids love Barbie, my 2 and 6 year olds and none of them are thinking they want to look like Barbie. We keep teasing my 6 year old that she needs to diet, she is even saying she's losing weight but she already looks pregnant LOL.
@jhrcsr (348)
• United States
7 Feb 07
My girls always had Barbies, now my granddaughter comes along and it's nothing but those Bratz dolls UGH! They are sooooo ugly, to me, but she really loves them. Each generation has a doll that they favor. If the child is a girl, she is going to fall in love with this or that. Believe me, it will change several times in the next few years for you. I don't see any harm in it. Let her play and use her imagination, it helps grow their little minds and teaches them creativity.
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@shaggin (74988)
• United States
1 Mar 11
I dont think it will be bad for your daughter to be interested in barbie things. My daughter has loved barbies since she was real little. Some of my friends wouldnt allow their kids to play with barbies or watch barbie movies but I didnt care. The movies are really nice.
@michelledarcy (5220)
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31 Jan 07
My daughters both play with barbies and they are 5 and 2. I think that as long as you give them a balanced outlook on life it won't affect them that badly.
@poppoppop111 (5731)
• Canada
7 Feb 07
i don't beleive that barbie will have a bad effect on a child. it's just a toy. there are so many worst things in this world to worry about than a toy.









