giving part of urself

isnt it when you love someone you're risking everything for that person...when you love someone you dont have to expect that s/he will be reciprocating it in the exact way that you want it to happen...in every relationship there's a give and take, understanding, and patience...in each of us we have differences, each of us has different way of showing love and affection, but dont you think that its best for you to let them feel that you have love them in the best way you can, than to have a regret in the end that you dont give your all?

you also thing in the opposite direction . if u do some job and totally devote your entire life time for that that means you are sacrifycing your own interest and taking pain of the others and telling others that u are enjoying love. how is this possible to act at different side in one time . either u r fooling the other or you are fooling your self. love is a required one and without that any thing is not possible in life it is also agreed but it does not mean that u should sacrifice all for love. then this will become one sided love is it not . how ever, glad that u r thinking in this line .
all the best

Expecting is what makes you fall. If you love someone unconditionally you won't fall very hard because you be expecting. You will accept the fall when it comes. It is not your giving your all that makes you hurt but your expectation.

well it is sad sometimes that we give all we can to this other person and we find our love unreciprocated and all our efforts shrugged off. it is really painful to continue loveng a person you know doesnt love you back.

i am actually in the same position as you are way back. but then again i never asked the guy. maybe you never asked the guy?. or did you just assume that he didnt like you?. are you in a relationship and feel unloved and uncared for and neglected?. sometimes men have a hard time showing what they really feel because unlike women they do not show their emotions that often. so mayve you should ask him..

Go Jenny Go!

ya.... It's true...

It's a kind of denotion to ur loved ones......!!!

well, may be that's what it is called unconditional love... you do something to others and you don't expect anything in return... hope that only God can repay your kindness...

Giving of yourself and loving someone does not mean it will be returned. All those songs and poems about unrequited love wouldn't exist if it were. Love also exists in caring for others, especially those who cannot take care of themselves, in these cases a return of love may be ther at times, but again may fade as the other becomes less aware of surroundings in the case of those with a mentally diminishing process. Volunteers, helath care professionals and others give of themselves daily expecting no love in return but freely giving love nevertheless. I don't think in any cse that fair or unfair enters into the process, it simply is.

it always happens to us women. we always love whole-heartedly, giving our 100% and most of the time taken for granted. maybe we should sometime think of ourselves.To leave some part of us to ourselves. Giving 100% percent love doesn't mean we'll be loved, too. But if you really love someone that you would risk that 100%, then go, because you can never tell, that with the help of prayers, you'd find one day that he love you more than how much you love him.

I can understand what u feel, but we shud push ourself harder and harder to make ourself stronger, if we dont expect anything in return, or any kind of affection or care,thne nothing can make us sad, any this behavoiur (true,infinite selfless love) will definitely move the person u love, it may take time, but it will happen for sure, then u can be sure his/her love for u will equal to how much u love her/him.
Again this puts an expectation for the love to return, no need if someone comes back, good for him/her n for u, even if not,then be glad coz good loves you, as u love all other as he has asked us to.