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myLot reputation of 93/100. Pups2Hug (338)3 years ago

Who is he/she? I don't have one...I find it difficult to confide in anyone and always keep things to myself. I guess you can say I only trust myself. Not always good, I know.

 
 
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shywolf (3828) response was accepted on 2/13/2007.
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tags:  confidant, confide, trust, difficult, good
 
1. myLot reputation of 99/100. samtaylorskykierajen (5847)   3 years ago

I wouldn't say I have one true confident, I trust each of my friends for different things and for anything else I keep to myself .I don't think I could ever trust just one person with all my secrets because if anything ever happened like a dispute between my friend and I she would know way to much about me and could hold that over me, esp . is she knew everything about me . For instance, I just had a friend that I know longer talk to because she stole from me, I did trust her but now realize that she can't be trusted as this is not the first time she stole from me .


myLot reputation of 93/100. Pups2Hug (338)  3 years ago

Sorry to hear about that incident with your former friend. You're smart to have more than one confidant. Thanks for your response:)

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2. myLot reputation of 85/100. shywolf (3828)   3 years ago

I have a best friend who I met online nearly eight years ago who I can tell almost absolutely anything to. I would say that she is my one true confidant right now, because I don't have anyone else that I can tell just anything to. That's really how I like it, though.. one really close friend at a time.

I agree that with some things it is better to trust oneself. I know that I have a few things I have never told anyone, or have told to maybe one other person in my life. But I wouldn't be completely happy withuot someone around who I could tell 99.9% of everything to. I really need to feel that closeness and friendship with someone. So I am really glad to have the confidant that I have!^_^


myLot reputation of 93/100. Pups2Hug (338)  3 years ago

That's so nice...I'm glad you found your one true confidant. I guess I've been burned too many times to ever want to take the chance again:(

Thanks for your thoughtful response - greatly appreciated:)

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. newadd (2846)   3 years ago

My true confidant would have to be my husband. We talk each day about everything. From home to work to the kids day at school. I know that I am very lucky to have a man who listens to me, even when I get off the subject at times:)
Enjoy your day.


myLot reputation of 93/100. Pups2Hug (338)  3 years ago

Yes, you are so very lucky - and I'm so happy for you:) But then, your husband is also very lucky to have found you, too! Having your spouse to be your one true confidant is ultimately the tops - who could ask for more?!

Thanks for dropping by, newadd;)


myLot reputation of 93/100. newadd (2846)  3 years ago

You are welcome, I enjoy your topics:)
Enjoy your evening.

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4. myLot reputation of 85/100. razcal2267 (9492)   3 years ago

The one person I can say anything to and trust has to be my friend Erica. I have know her for over 20 years,actually became friends with her while she was dating my brother. We have been able to not talk for months but when we need to vent, cry, laugh whatever we turn to each other. I have a real hard time trusting people but somehow I know whatever I tell her will either stay with just her or she will be there to help me.


myLot reputation of 93/100. Pups2Hug (338)  3 years ago

Yes, "a friend in need is a friend indeed." I'm happy that you've found a friend in Erica - it must be a comfort to know she'll always be there for you.

Thanks, razcal, for taking the time to share:)

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. ronita34 (2098)   3 years ago

I think that i can say that i have a few but my one ultimate confidant would be my Mother as i tell her everything that happens in my life and i can always count on true and pure advice!!!


myLot reputation of 93/100. Pups2Hug (338)  3 years ago

That is so nice...I wish I have a mother like yours. Thanks for your response:)

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. greengal (2946)   3 years ago

I usually don't open to every friend I have. I am very picky and as far as I know, not everybody knows everything about me. But there is one cousin who is more of a friend than a brother and I like to talk to him. He has some great advice for me all the time and he understands me well too. I would say he is my one true confidante.

Pssst..btw, you can confide in me if you want...your secrets are safe with me;o)


myLot reputation of 93/100. Pups2Hug (338)  3 years ago

hehe^^, you're so sweet! You know, I was so sure you were going to say your hubby is your confidant...but, your cousin must be a very nice guy, too, to have you confide in him.

I have a gut feeling that I can trust you, too;)

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7. myLot reputation of 93/100. JashleyB (1157)   3 years ago

I used to be able to talk to my sister about anything but she got married and so I ahven't really been able to o that much. But I do talk to my mom about pretty much everything because she is a great listener!

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8. myLot reputation of 86/100. betterlife (1568)   3 years ago

I have one true confident. it is really dificult to confide in any one but I confide in him as a routine. He knows about me as I know about me. He is my best friend, my Guru (teacher) and my adviser. I am fortunate to have him and communicate with him.

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