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Does my Girl Freind did right me? Didnt She Supose to Tell me Abt her Pregnancy? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 82/100. samraf (541)3 years ago

I am very much tensed now days because of my girlfreind, we normally alwyas had a physical relationship and we had decided that we wont be having baby before marriage, but guess what she didnt told me that she is pregnant and when last night we were together and i just feel that she is try to avoid sex and the reason i got to know that she is pregnant and it was a shock to me. i dont know what to do now. i am not able to afford family or to get married. i am so much tensed. help me out may be ur suggestion give me any way out. thks in advance


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tags:  what to do, pregnancy, girl freind, pregnancy of my girl freind, pregnancey
 
1. myLot reputation of 91/100. patrice7 (982)   3 years ago

well, aske her first if she realy wants the baby or not.. also tell her that it will be difficult for you and tell her how you really feel about it. well.. do you have work already or something.. you are in a very tensed situation and i think that you two must talk about what you want and must have a very serious conversation.


myLot reputation of 82/100. samraf (541)  3 years ago

yes i also think the same that we really have to talk about this seriously. thks for the advice

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2. myLot reputation of 85/100. white_snake (507)   3 years ago

well now thats a very very serious case dude .. i don't think so ..i can give you a very cool possible solution but as far as i know its one of the biggest problem you are suffering with, now the thing is that ... may be abortion is the thing or secondly ... u can do is that get married as soon as you get ... that are the 2 cases which are just left now ....

and i think if you are not that mature enough to get married then i think abortion is the best thing that can prevent you from the thing you did, and other then that .. your girl will b ...fine as well ...

i think she must be suffering from problemz i guess coz i know its the ... shitest thing ..which came into a big problem for you man ...

other then that .. i can suggest you to take her to the doctor as soon as possible bcause i think now no time left ... if its late then the 1st option will be no lasting .... and then ..what will be with the kid thingy?

thats the serious case and look an eye on it, and do as soon as possible solutions to get rid to this situation what had done ..


myLot reputation of 82/100. samraf (541)  3 years ago

a big post i hope you will get 4 cent on that lol


myLot reputation of 85/100. white_snake (507)  3 years ago

hhahahaha, dude, its not the matter of that ... its just for , so you can UNDERSTAND the things and can take the right decision for what i am going to make your life easy for:)


myLot reputation of 82/100. samraf (541)  3 years ago

offcourse i do understand, and i really appreciate it but guess its great to heard

Thanks Alot

Lets be freind .

Muuhhhhaaaaa:D

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. pebbles_cubbie (2157)   3 years ago

i know this is hard for you, but stick by her side. she needs you the most right now and so does your baby. i know you may not be able to afford a family. but the most important thing is to try. try to take care of the baby and her the best you can. that's what counts. don't give up. if you try to work harder or try to get a second job that will help. you may be worn out and tired from 2 jobs but it's for the welfare of your child and your girlfriend. i hope this helps you some. this is the most important gift you have received from God, don't let it go.


myLot reputation of 82/100. samraf (541)  3 years ago

Thanks pebbles, i am also thinking to do 2 jobs now but in this manner i wont be home for long and then how would I take care for her and baby.

i have no problem for two jobs but problem is this in that way i wont be home for too long and then she will definetly need me every sec now days and i dont wont to leave her like this and go out to earn money.



can you help me this too?

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. loved1 (4852)   3 years ago

Babies are far too valuable to throw away! If you still don't want the baby after it is born then you can choose to put it up for adoption. Someone will be delighted to love your precious baby. As far as the money goes, nobody is ever really "ready" to have a baby. You just have to do your best and have faith that it will all work out. I know I wasn't financially stable when our first child was born and I don't have a pile of money in the bank now that I have 3 children. I just know if you do your best, God will help out with the rest. Blessings to you.


myLot reputation of 82/100. samraf (541)  3 years ago

well i really appreciate your though and i will think about this as i am really dont have much time left to take decission

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5. myLot reputation of 73/100. Lydia1901 (15731)   3 years ago

I think you just have to accept the responsibility and do your best about taking care of her and your unborn baby. It will ber rough at the beginning, but in the end everything will work out own its own. Good luck in everything that you do.


myLot reputation of 82/100. samraf (541)  3 years ago

well i really wana say thankyou to you because you are been so nice to me but i am really trying to be a good person to accept the situation....


i really want this baby but i am really confuse i want all of you people to help and pray for me and ask god to help me out in every situation which make me feel uncomfortable...


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6. duffer001 (3)   3 years ago

a great topic but i think ur girlfeind didnt done good . she should be appolgy and make things out for both of you.


myLot reputation of 82/100. samraf (541)  3 years ago

i think its to late now ...

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