What to do with all of it?

I would keep out a few things for the children that you think might have meaning to them when they are older or just something you know they might like . As for the stuff around the house, I would keep what I liked and get rid of the rest of it . You can always pack it up and give it away if you are no longer interested in it . If someone asks where you got it from and you are not comfortable about telling them where it came from just say your not really sure or tell them it is just something you are not comfortable talking about .

i've been there and done that. i kept a good bit of my stuff an saved it for my children. other things, i got rid of it. it's hard... i know... i wish you the best of luck!!!

Ya I know you got a practicable problem in your's hand so I guess I would suggest like others have, do make a list and segregate according to what is must you would like to keep for yourself and for yours children and then dump the left over. There can not be any other way.

well. if you don't love him anymore I would get rid of it. that's what I would do. I am sure there are a alot of memories thats there. so if you want him completely out of your life. Yes, get ried of his touch.

naa,thats make you upset?im not merried but i wanna answer your discussion,i will still keep those important stuff like wedding ring,wedding gown,and pictures and the stuff likes gifts,you can used some in your kitchen or something else and if you also like you can donate them to the poor or the victims of typhoons and earthquake,,that can be useful to them

I god divorced about 15 years ago and had to do the same thing. I kept the stuff I wanted for me and even have some of it out still - hubby #2 knows where it came from but that I like it so I've kept it. Some of it - like the pictures - I have given to my kids. They really appreciate it. Other stuff that I didn't like to start with and he didn't take with him went to Goodwill or the local church.