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myLot reputation of 93/100. 96vidalias (191)3 years ago

I am NOT afraid of spiders. No, really. And I should be. When I was very young I saw the movie Tarantula, and for months after that I kept picturing a huge spider leg crashing down through the ceiling of my room. So if anyone should be afraid of spiders, I should. Then where do your phobias come from?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 69/100. mbarryton (1427)   3 years ago

i dont know where they come from but i hate big spiders and snakes ugh

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2. myLot reputation of 93/100. Island_Geko (1520)   3 years ago

Unconscious or emotional learning takes place to keep us safe. In primitive conditions when coming into contact with something dangerous, the mind/body would create the optimum state for survival - a panic attack.
No one knows the precise cause, but they seem to run in families and are slightly more prevalent in women.

Specific phobias usually arise in childhood or early adult life and can persist for decades if they remain untreated. Some children grow out of phobias, while others do not, although there is no medical explanation for this.

People generally develop phobias for objects they cannot predict or control. Danger is more stressful when it takes us by surprise.

My phob


myLot reputation of 93/100. Island_Geko (1520)  3 years ago

my phobias are cause by trama from childhood


myLot reputation of 93/100. 96vidalias (191)  3 years ago

A panic attack doesn't seem like a very good survival mechanism. It either produces running around and screaming or being frozen with fear. And the person either screaming their lungs out or saying Eew..Eew.., depending on the size and closeness of the (in this case)spider.
But I will agree it is the mind's attempt to deal with a threat, however crazy the fear or the reaction to it.
Thanks for your response!

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. xphile777 (320)   3 years ago

They're mostly a combination of genetics and environmental factors.

For instance, in my case, I am afraid of spiders and have a slight phobia (one is considered having a phobia when one's fear of something starts to interfere with one's life or becomes a problem). I classify my phobia as slight because it has on certain occasions interfered with my life (I call being trapped in the bathroom for 20 minutes because there's a big mutha of a spider between me and the door an interference) but mostly I'm just revulsed by them. However, I've learned to live with the skinny little cellar spiders that are determined to live in my house no matter what I do to get rid of them.

However, since spiders are the only thing in this existence that I'm afraid of, I don't believe I have a genetic tendency towards being overly cautious or apprehensive. I believe my phobia stemmed from first being revulsed by them and then making the mistake of learning more about them (in an attempt to be less afraid). The more I learned, the more I grew to fear them.

It's interesting to note that children can become phobic through learned behavior (i.e., mimicing the phobias of those around them). Children are just tiny walking recorders and take in all they see and experience. So, if one is phobic about something, it's best not to let one's child know about it, or you could raise a litter of phobic offspring.:P


myLot reputation of 93/100. 96vidalias (191)  3 years ago

That's an interesting point about children becoming phobic. When young, they also don't think anything is gross and then learn better.

And I agree it's best not to learn about some things. I know I would be happier if I had never found out about dust mites, and especially if I had never seen those horribly magnified pics of them.


myLot reputation of 92/100. eslproofreader (273)  3 years ago

Yeah, if we knew nothing of bacteria, lots of people with OCD would not have scrubbed their hands raw. (They'd just be plugging and unplugging, locking and unlocking, checking, checking, checking...;)


myLot reputation of 93/100. 96vidalias (191)  3 years ago

I'm reading Naked by David Sedaris (well, not right this minute) and he tells about his childhood compulsions to lick lightswitch plates and poke things and tap his forehead with his shoe, etc. It is funny in a tragic way and sadly fascinating. He says he got over it when he started smoking, which seems like a rough cure to me.

On an interesting sidenote, he is not afraid of spiders.


myLot reputation of 92/100. eslproofreader (273)  3 years ago

I love David Sedaris (and that book was good). I figure, if you don't have some quirks that you struggle with (be it licking lightswitches or fear of poultry), you're really missing out; it part of the human experience!


myLot reputation of 93/100. 96vidalias (191)  3 years ago

An update on David Sedaris and Tourette syndrome, which is what it sounds like he had. I saw a program recently which said that a lot of children who have the syndrome will have symptoms lessen or disappear as they get into their late teens. So the age of starting smoking might have been a coincidence with getting over the tics and compulsions.

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4. myLot reputation of 92/100. eslproofreader (273)   3 years ago

I have a casual friend who is so terrified of fowl that he can't even eat poultry! And he thinks it stems from watching 'The Birds' (I think he just made that up b/c he really has no idea how he got stuck with this phobia). And the more prototypical the bird is 'think pigeon vs. penguin', the more he suffers. I find it fascinating (well, and a little funny...of all the things to fear, he chose turkeys). I know it wouldn't be a 'phobia' if it made sense to all of us.

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