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myLot reputation of 70/100. dianel (4586) 6 years ago

This really disgusts me. My grandson has about 10 dolls all girls mind you and plays with them all the time. He takes them everywhere he goes all of them. Its embarrassing to me especially when he brings them in stores. People look at him and say oh what a cute little girl. My daughter thinks there is nothing wrong with this but I think its disgusting. He is only two but what will he be like when he is older is what bothers me. What do you think about this!

 

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1. myLot reputation of 89/100. glowsinthedark (128)   6 years ago

I don't understand why it would upset you so much. Young children tend to gravitate towards dolls for the same reasons they like mirrors and pictures of faces. It helps them learn about themselves. It shouldn't embarass you because honestly there is nothing wrong with it your daughter is correct. Also a lot of people get confused on the gender of small children regardless of what they are playing with. My cousin was mistaken for a boy fairly often even though my aunt would dress her in pink and ruffly dresses.

The reason he probably has all girl dolls is because it is hard to find dolsl that are boys. You could do something like buy him a boy cabbage patch or something. Examining your feelings about this is going to be very important as I'm sure you love your grandson and your daughter and you don't want this to cause a rift between you. What exactly are you afraid of about him playing with dolls? It is not an indication of how he will grow up.


myLot reputation of 78/100. rushmee (405)  6 years ago

i hope he read your post , i feel you gave a good reason and a very useful tip if followed in a right manner


myLot reputation of 93/100. Sweetpeas (339)  6 years ago

Here here I agree. Isnt one of the reasons 'girls' played with dolls originaly is to aid them in the future when they have children? Dont you want your grandson to be a good future father to his own children?,and dont you want your grandson to be able to express himself freely without predjudice, especially from his own family?


myLot reputation of 87/100. dxfanatic69 (307)  6 years ago

very true
at that young of an age, it is natural for young kids, including the age of 2, to be drawn towards whatever helps them learn about who they are, of course even without subliminally knowing it.
My parents told me that I had played with dolls that had belonged to my sister back up until the age I was about 4...
It is not any indication that there is "Something wrong" with your grandson - don't worry.


myLot reputation of 93/100. toonatoons (2739)  6 years ago

i have to agree with sweetpeas here. there's an article i read that playing with dolls actually develops some kind of responsibility on the child. studies have shown that boys who played with dolls end up as better fathers who are very much able to take care of their children.


pkguptamca (50)  6 years ago

I thinks you have givin good reson.I am agree with you.


myLot reputation of 99/100. camo26 (598)  6 years ago

To be quite honest i agree with what you all said but i have one exeption i had a friend who had a younger brother and he loved playing with Dolls and my little ponies he wouldnt play with anything else and when he started school he found it incredibly hard to get on with other boys for the simple fact of he played with dolls then when he started getting older he was bullied quite bad over this so i think he grudgenly gave it up taking them to school but still continued to play with them at home ( makes me feel bad saying this but even i ridiculed him over it. Well i was only young too at the time lol ). Finally he grew out of it but he still had a rather feminine side to him and turns out he is gay and cross dresses ok he probably would of been anyway but i am only saying this as he is the only boy i have known to play with dolls.


myLot reputation of 82/100. cyntrow (2702)  6 years ago

My straight brother played with dolls, my gay brother did not, and I played with trucks and I am straight. It is no indication of anything except that the boy likes dolls. And to repress that is too tell him that there is shame in something he is doing.


skybitscom (59)  6 years ago

Comment to one about girls playing with dolls in reference to having children.
Who decided playing with dolls at 2 had anything to do with having children? That is so stupid and just another label. I love children but never was a doll person. I prefer trucks and tinkering with how things work. Labels at any age only hamper the true natural gifts the person has to offer in life. It is way past time for all labels to be abololished, and especially, not enforced in front of little children. I found plenty of guys who don't know how to fix a car, yet I do. Labels are wrong.

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2. myLot reputation of 87/100. michelledarcy (4379)   6 years ago

I think it is fabulous that your Grandson isn't afraid to play with dolls. I assume you want him to be a great father someday, and that is what he is practicing to do with the dolls.
I am sure he will grow out of it when he is very young, so it won't be a problem when he is older.


myLot reputation of 82/100. msqtech (14379)  6 years ago

It wont be a problem if the adults dont make it a problem

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. byfaithonly (6284)   6 years ago

At 2 I wouldn't worry about it, my daughter played with trucks and cars until she was 3 or 4 and all of a sudden one day had no interest at all in them. I would say if it embarrasses you maybe you could set some limits - honey Grandma has a lot to take care of in the store so you can only take 1 doll with you. He may put up a fuss but I'm sure it won't take long to "train" him.

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4. myLot reputation of 48/100. MrNiceGuy (3253)   6 years ago

I wouldn't worry about it at that age. He'll probably get into action figures, guns, and trucks soon. 2 is really young so I really wouldn't worry about it.


myLot reputation of 93/100. cherylk44 (557)  6 years ago

I agree with you niceguy, and so why don't you buy him a couple of man dolls, like barbie but the guy doll, or a policeman doll, fireman doll if your so bugged by him playing with dolls, but really there is nothing wrong with it, he's a child, imaginative and learning about his world, I think it's good he likes them, to me it shows he is sweet and a loving little kid! - he will be running around with the guns and such toys soon enough, playing soldier, - I'de rather have my son play daddy, it's alot safer these days!

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5. myLot reputation of 37/100. pioneergladiator1 (490)   6 years ago

i dun think that there is anything bad with this
he might get ok with time
wish u and ur grandson the BEST

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6. myLot reputation of 82/100. msqtech (14379)   6 years ago

you shouldnt make a big deal of it

I think you should get him to the store and buy him some competing toys if you want but dont bad mouth his preference


myLot reputation of 97/100. sylviekitty (1045)  6 years ago

Exactly. Making him feel badly for his choice of toys is not a good thing.

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. sylviekitty (1045)   6 years ago

Don't make a big deal out of it, or YOU will be making it into something it's not. It's NOT a big deal. Frankly, it's quite normal for boys to be interested in dolls, and all various other types of toys. Why?

Children like to manipulate toys to do things they see in real life- and dolls do this quite well.

Your grandson is learning via pretend play with dolls, how to be nurturing. This is something boys should learn, just as much as girls should. His wife will appreciate it when he's an adult, believe me. ;)

It doesn't mean he's gay, or will be gay.

He *could* grow out of it in a year or two, or less.

What you think about really doesn't matter. It's what his parents think. :)


myLot reputation of 97/100. sylviekitty (1045)  6 years ago

oops.. left out the word "it". what you think about "it" doesn't really matter. as long as his parents (your daughter) is comfortable with it, that's all that matters.

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8. myLot reputation of 29/100. anja31 (715)   6 years ago

Sorry to say that, a doll is not only for a girl. When I was little I play with cars and boy toys, and I am a woman. Every child is different, and I cant understand that you find this really disgustant because it isnt.

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9. myLot reputation of 29/100. anja31 (715)   6 years ago

Sorry to say that, a doll is not only for a girl. When I was little I play with cars and boy toys, and I am a woman. Every child is different, and I cant understand that you find this really disgustant because it isnt.

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10. myLot reputation of 92/100. freak369 (3473)   6 years ago

Ease up on the testosterone for a minute. It's not your kid, while it is your grandchild you can't dictate what is good or bad for them.

Do you remember what you played with when you were two?
Do you think your grandchild is going to remember what he played with when he was two?

Get the point I'm stabbing at?


myLot reputation of 70/100. dianel (4586)  6 years ago

Well why is my daughter promoting it by buying him dolls? I mean he didnt go out and buy them himself. Get my point?


myLot reputation of 91/100. ashleypastor (137)  6 years ago

But that is what he wanted, shes not going to buy him a firetruck when he is asking for a doll. When my uncle was eight he asked for a doll for xmas, and got it. The picture of him holding it is pricless, and he was so happy.
Does that mean he's turned into some weird man? no he's perfectly normal, and at 40 yrs old it doesn't matter if you played with dolls 30 something years previous.


myLot reputation of 49/100. Gigglygrrl (273)  6 years ago

Daniel, I bought my boys Barbies and Winx Club dolls and promoted it. I am a dissertation away from my doctorate in education. There is nothing wrong with your grandson choosing to play with dolls nor is there any problem with your daughter buying the toys for him. Your grandson has an interest in taking care of a doll, so what? Why can't you just allow him to be him and allow him to grow and flourish into a caring young man?

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