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LOVE is holding on OR letting go.... email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 87/100. graeze05 (156)   ranked 98 out of 2,671 in relationships3 years ago

Love can never be defined.. even by someone who's been alot when it comes to loving.. but what if you truly love this person and everything seems not to be so right when you're together, do you Hold On or just Let Go..
what if the one you love loves someone else, and though he/she is not making any move towards that other person, you know deep in your heart that his/her heart doesnt belong to you anymore.. will you hold on and fight for your love or do you accept the truth and let him/her go..
what if the two of you have been together for such a long time but you're not bringing out the best of each other and you know someone elso will..would you try to fix things up and hold on or assume that things will never get better and decide to let go..

love is holding on, fighting for what you feel..but sometimes love is letting go, setting free knowing he/she will be happy if you do..

is love holding on? or is it letting go?

 
 
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joyskie23 (141) response was accepted on 3/1/2007.
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tags:  love, letting go, holding on, let go, relationship
 
1. myLot reputation of 93/100. aprilsue00 (1764)   ranked 2,121 out of 2,671 in relationships   3 years ago

I am not really sure what love is. I have been married to my husband for three years. I have been with him for five years. I thought I loved him. But I have some how managed to fall in love with someone else. So maybe I did not love him in the first place. How could I love my husband if I am capable of falling in love with someone else. Is it possible to love two people at the same time?


myLot reputation of 87/100. graeze05 (156)   ranked 98 out of 2,671 in relationships  3 years ago

i dont think it is possible to love two people at the same time.. well atleast for me..
ive dated a guy before that i thought i loved but in the long run i fell for another guy, then i realized and concluded that i didnt love him in the first place. i just thought i did. then now im with my boyfriend for 3years and since we started dating i never got attracted to anyone..and though ive been close to alot of my male co workers, i feel like im not capable anymore of liking someone else.. maybe you just thought u love your husband.. or maybe you love him before and fell out of love for him without you knowing it..
in this case.. i think love should be letting go.. it will be unfair for him and for you too..

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2. myLot reputation of 69/100. mathurvarun (605)   ranked 718 out of 2,671 in relationships   3 years ago

if the person doesnt love you and he/she loves somebody else then u should let her go,love should be from both the sides,its not one way

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3. myLot reputation of 67/100. cool1girl (162)   ranked 350 out of 2,671 in relationships   3 years ago

I feel its a personal perspective.How do you feel about it? Do you want to fight or let go?Do you think that you can change the way she/he thinks and both of you can have a better relationship if you hold on and fight?The final decision is yours.You will be responsible for the consequences whatever they are when you hold on-good or bad.Its easier to let go...Then for the future,all you have to do is move on........


myLot reputation of 87/100. graeze05 (156)   ranked 98 out of 2,671 in relationships  3 years ago

the problem with letting go though is you might just wake up one day and realize you did the wrong thing.. and it's too late already... and i think letting go also entails alot of "what if" questions..
it also depends on how strong a person is.. for somebody who is weak and who needs constant care and a companion, then holding on might be the option coz this kind of person might be afraid of being lonely so instead of letting go he/she might hold on.. but for the strong ones, letting go and moving on will be a little easier for them...

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. martianwoman (3889)   ranked 5 out of 2,671 in relationships   3 years ago

good theory, again love, any way all subject about love are intersting, we will discusse about love all our life about this and cant find the truth, but you know why?becouse we make what answer is good for us....we are selfish when talk about love...you right when say that love is holding on or is letting go.. theory is good, but haw can a person inlove to say, i love you, but you dont love me ...you can go.. we can but is really hard, bec love is not realistic, is onlu love

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5. myLot reputation of 89/100. joyskie23 (141)   ranked 32 out of 2,671 in relationships   3 years ago

Well,for me it depends upon the level of your relationship.If your partner is already your spouse,you have to hold on and dont ever let go coz even he's liking someone else,he doesnt have the right to do it so.But if youre not yet married,and you feel your partner is liking someone else and you know that your partner will be much happier with someone else,if it's really love you feel inside you have to let go and make him/her happy and decide with whom he/she wants to be with.

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6. myLot reputation of 72/100. chimex4real2k2 (1790)   ranked 16 out of 2,671 in relationships   3 years ago

For me its holding on. Because I know that will eventually be better for me and the girls future. My act of letting go may seem heroic but that would especially endanger the future of the one I truly love by making her life vulnerable to a mediocre life by ending up with someone who is not me. I am that someone who loves her more than anyone will ever will. With me I know she will get the best so if I truly love her it is my responsibility to hold on and ensure a good future, especially a good future of her...if all this makes any sense at all. This is what I believe in and always will.

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7. myLot reputation of 75/100. Kangleicha (325)   ranked 2,117 out of 2,671 in relationships   3 years ago

One cannot really say, because as you said, love cannot really be defined. Sometimes, it is not about holding on or letting go, sometimes it is compromise. If I cannot get that thing, I have these, so let me love the thing I have as much as I can.

Sometimes, love is an obsession. Even if we know the other person has no interest, we try to force love onto others deceiving ourselves that he/she is trying hard-to-get method.

Sometimes, love is so simple as one person living for another.

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8. myLot reputation of 93/100. ladyjava (605)   ranked 70 out of 2,671 in relationships   3 years ago

One expression comes to mind "If you love someone let them go, if they come back to you then it's meant to be"

I believe you can never force anyone to stay with you no matter how much you love that person. If that person is not happy with you anymore, how can he/she then makes you happy. It becomes a relationship that is based only on co-existance. He/she might just stay with you out of obligation but never really be happy. The worst that can happen will be resentment will build up and then you will really lose the person. Letting go is the hardest that anyone will have to go thru but sometimes it is the only way to go:)


hereim (52)  3 years ago

love is all about understanding.it cnt be categoried b/w 2 headings n situations.

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9. myLot reputation of 92/100. becuttieusa (4691)   ranked 1,099 out of 2,671 in relationships   3 years ago

Love is HOLDING ON and LETTING GO but the true love is two people love each other, don't share their love with another one. If the one you love loves soneelse, it means he/ she want to try another move, he/she want to have you and someone else. so it means he/she doesnt love you truly like how you love them. You 'd beeter LETTING it go, let he/ she make another move with someone he/she like,. You dont want trianle love either, do you? I'ts just hurt he/she and espeicallly you. LETTING IT GO and don't waste your time to HOLDING ON something you know it not belongs to you!!!

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10. myLot reputation of 75/100. silverflower (497)   3 years ago

Love is letting your love go where it goes because we can't hold up love. If it is our it will remain ours.

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