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waking_phoenix (44)1 year ago

would u keep the person u love even though she's hurting...or let him go and hurt ur self?

 
 
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1. elpovette (16)   1 year ago

I'd rather let him go and hurt myself. Love for me is sacrificing. I'd be a hypocrite if I say it won't hurt. Yes, it will hurt. But I'd be more hurt if I see him unhappy. Much more, unhappy WITH ME. Isn't it better to see your loved one happy with somebody else than to see him unhappy with you?


waking_phoenix (44)  1 year ago

don't u love urself more?hehehe

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2. randomgrafix (44)   1 year ago

I guess it all depends on why she/he's hurting.
But I refuse to keep anyone in my life that doesn't want to be there.
If you're unhappy and I've tried everything to make you happy then you're not for me or I'm not for you... so you can go.
I'll hurt for a while... but I'll get over it.

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3. myLot reputation of 26/100. mis_terry (161)   1 year ago

If you still think you are meant to be together and keep revisiting past events, you will find it hard to move on as he is still in your memories. Forget him/her. Remember, there’s still many fishes in the ocean to look forward to.


waking_phoenix (44)  1 year ago

thanks for that advice girl...

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