Long distance relationship

@lextoper (573)
Philippines
February 20, 2007 8:27pm CST
They say, love could reach miles away... on todays technology, I guess it will work out. Computer/Internet is a great help, you can chat or call for free. Its difficult to be far from your lovers, temptations is there, Both should be strong to overcome any trials that will come across their path. But, what if, you are not prepared, your love for each other is not that strong enough? Will you still let her/him depart from you?
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@allwin (297)
• India
21 Feb 07
no i wont i'll try to get myself as close as possible, even if she goes off..i'll try getting close to her.
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
You think differently compared to others who responses to this discussion... well, i heartily respect it and possibly i'll do the same. thanks for your response.
@patrice7 (1191)
• United States
21 Feb 07
hello lextoper!. i quite agree with you that internet and the technology today really offers or paves the way for people from different farawat place to connect and communicate with each other anytime they want.. i think that the tecnolgy today really makes long-distance relationships last longer than the traditional way wherein lovers send letters and stuff. i also agree that both should be prepared for the things that may come their way and that both lovers should be strong and hold on to their relationship no matter what.. as long as they truly love each other then i think that even if the road to happiness is a bit rough and rocky they can still make it to the end.
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
I am so thankful that you respond to my discussion. It's really a great pleasure. I agree with you. Having this kind of situation is not that easy. As you said, the road of happiness is a bit rough and rocky, but at the end, fate will always brings lovers bind together.
@quatelmon (955)
• United States
21 Feb 07
The relationship I am in now started as a long distance relationship. We've been together for 5 years now, and now live together. It was very very VERY hard to be so far away from him. However, it was worth it in the end. I was always faithful to him, and I think that it is all for the best. I'm glad that I hung in there. If you feel that the love it true, you should hang in there, as well.
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
thank you for your response. That would be a great example for a far away lovers. its true love you have for each other. may your love guides you in everything that you do. Hoping to hear from you again.
@rsa101 (40952)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
Yeah with the technology of today communications getting easier and convenient nowadays. The world is shrinking and shrinking as they said it. But still it is not enough to really maintain your relationship since still distance is distance and this hitech tools for communications can also cause the destruction of your current relationship since this will just create an avenue to be tempted to do other things other than communicating with your love one. So, it all depends on how strong you've established your relationship in real life that counts in the end. This kind of strength can only be establish if you have establish the relationship not thru the technology but personally.
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
Thank you for your response. its the nature of life... no matter how long you've been together, how strong your relationship is, we are still human being, easily get tempted. hoping to hear you again...
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
No matter how privilege the both of you with all sort of resources if one is not willing nothing's gonna happen. If there's a will there's a way. If you really meant for each other then your love and fate will bring you back together.
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
You got it right... as always...c",) simple but, exact... thank you for your response.
@nicagose (70)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
Hmmm.. I suppose you are already preparing yourself in such situation. With the technogy we have, communication will be much easier but sometimes presense is sought. As long as there is trust between the two of you, your relationship will prosper. Just remain faithful to your love one and she'll also stay that way with you.
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
Slightly, your right. :D i'm preparing my self for this possible situation. I am just thinking, airing this kind of situation here is a great help for my preparations.