i need someone with a decorating eye!!   

i am haveing a hard time decorating. i just can't seem to think, or see what i can do with my living room it's a big beautiful room. i am rearranging it probably every other month, and i'm tired of doing that. i need some paint ideas(colors), maybe some theme ideas. i'm more of the country/victorian interest. i just cannot picture what i can do. i am a mommy, so can't quite just take a week outta being mommy to decorate. my husband likes to tell me,"quite saying that you can't decorate. you can, you just have 6 little ones around you all the time, so you can't really think" well, as sweet as that is, it still doesn't get my home decorated LOL LOL bless his sweet heart. i mean, anything will help. can you just see what this room could look like. what kinda trimmings, drapes, chair rail, wallpaper, wall hangings, you get the jist here right? what do you picture for this room? appreciate any help. i will probably be able to start purchasing things to decorate this room by the end of march. so keep the ideas rolling!! thanks a bunch!