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rhamby (1)4 years ago

my son has been to rehab unsuccessfully several times. He is 21 and last being a 6 month program. He was court ordered to Memphis. A cityof very predjudice gangs...drug city..from my point of view. He lasted longer than I could have. However, he is clean I think, but he came home because he simply took all he could. He was very weiry, scared and very thin. He and our family are not predjudice at all, he is a tin white country boy and was in the middle of hood in Memphis, Tn. Always horrassed, cursed at etc. A drug counselor from our county recommend a Christian based center in Ootlewah, TN ...Mountain??? not sure, she said it was great! seeking info on programbased on faith. We are a Christian family, however, since his addiciton, he seems so unworthy of CHrist love. What do you suggest

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. sedel1027 (12392)   4 years ago

uld go with the counselors’ suggestion. He needs to be in a program away from the family to learn how to be clean and deal with his issues on his own to he can come back to you more healthy and strong then he is now.

I am not saying send him away and not stay in contact - that is not the case. Even though he is in the program he needs to know that you support him 100%.

As far as him being "unworthy" of Christ’s love, I grew up in a Christian family and I was taught that we are not to judge who is or is not worthy of Christ’s love. Christ does not turn his back on any of his children no matter how far they stray. If you son still believe in the Christian way and he find out that you are questioning his worthiness of Christ’s love, he will rebel against you and feel abandoned.

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. smartguy47 (498)   4 years ago

wellllllllll take to some places very he feels that its worth more than drugs, thats the only way to make people to forget it .........CHANGE THEIR MIND< KEY FACTOR>

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3. myLot reputation of 62/100. triplefive (147)   4 years ago

Isn't there something about god loves everyone and no one is perfect. What about simple confession.

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. happygal68 (2583)   4 years ago

Search for a Narcotics Anonymous group and have him attend. They will work with him to help him stay clean & sometimes ppl find their way back to Christ through these programs.

Sure hope this helps.


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5. myLot reputation of 89/100. SnIcKasS (1079)   4 years ago

I say that you leave the faith thing out of the
family buisness..
"not worthy of christs love?!"
are you mad? I sure know that God or christ or whatever will want you to love him more than you love your son.

you should be ashamed... You need to talk with your son,
and put him in the first position, yes, before christ and god.


sorry for yelling, but things like that makes me mad.

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6. myLot reputation of 91/100. the_vicar (4822)   4 years ago

Of course he is worthy of Christ's love. That is exactly why Christ died for us so we have redemption. Read the lives of the saints and then tell me if your son isn't worthy. The saints led very sinful lives but because God led them to Jesus Christ and because there is such a thing as grace, they led very producted lives after they repented. Get your son into therapy. He needs help and lots and lots of love.

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7. myLot reputation of 69/100. blueman (7005)   4 years ago

i have read many successfully recovered stories.

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8. myLot reputation of 73/100. Islandlady (178)   4 years ago

God loves all his children, sinners as well right? Our family witnessed the miracle of family members'recovering in Christian based recovery centers. If he is willing, what better place for your son to be healed and helped back to being whole?

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9. myLot reputation of 83/100. penmaster (3642)   4 years ago

well, do what is best in accordance to your heart's desires.

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10. myLot reputation of 63/100. ApexLim (228)   4 years ago

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