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Have times really changed? Or are people generally the same? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 98/100. buldwgz (892)3 years ago

I just would like to hear what you think. I think that people have really just stayed the same as the calander changes. People alway say kids today are bad, etc., but I argue that they have been the way they are forever. I mean, billy the kid was called the kid for a reason. People only lived into their 20s and 30s centuries ago, so the bad was done young. What are your views?

 
 
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1. Hootyea (26)   3 years ago

Paradigms shift, yet comparing the paradigms on a macro level, you'll come to the conclusion very little has changed.


myLot reputation of 98/100. buldwgz (892)  3 years ago

Thanks for the input.

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2. myLot reputation of 21/100. ycswid (193)   3 years ago

I don't think that kids today are "bad" but I do think that times have changed. Parenting is not taken as seriously by more and more people. No stay at home parents anymore often means less guidance. Less guidance can only lead to problems. I don't think it ends with the parents though.

I really think that society in general has failed children. For the last many years children have been told "You can do anything" Well I'm sorry to burst your bubble but that's just not the case. Different people have different aptitudes and even different likes and dislikes which will lead them in particular directions.

There was a study done recently that stated that college students are more narcissistic than in previous generations. They are self-centered and as such I believe will make even worse parents than their own parents were. This is going to spiral out of control if we don't start to care about one another.

On an interesting side note I posted the other day asking if you could see evidence of people caring about each other and not surprisingly received no responses.


myLot reputation of 98/100. buldwgz (892)  3 years ago

Interesting, thanks.

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3. myLot reputation of 92/100. Transdisc (18489)   3 years ago

A part of me says that times haven't changed -- only technology. No matter the times, humanity has always managed to come up with ways to hurt, maim, and kill each other. In this regard, only changing technology has determined just how this is done.

Another part of me does sense that people seem to be more selfish than in more recent times...say, in the last 100 years. I don't know if this is so, or if I am just getting older and my perceptions of reality are changing.


myLot reputation of 98/100. buldwgz (892)  3 years ago

Interesting thoughts. Selfish as in starting a war so that others can remain slaves? Or taking their family up and moving for merely the idea of gold? I wonder if those are selfish. Or even further back when the story of the "good Samaritan" was a major impact on the listeners because NO ONE stopped to help others. I wonder what is selfish?


myLot reputation of 92/100. Transdisc (18489)  3 years ago

I'm not sure I follow you, buldqwz. I guess I'm not familiar with the references you are making. Please elaborate.


myLot reputation of 98/100. buldwgz (892)  3 years ago

elaborate? I am not sure that I need too really. People are now selfish and have always been selfish. They say fear keeps them from helping others, but that is just an excuse and we all know it.


myLot reputation of 92/100. Transdisc (18489)  3 years ago

Thanks for the elaboration. I can see where you're coming from, but I didn't get the "moving for gold" analogy. By any chance, does this refer to the pot of gold at the end of a rainbow?


myLot reputation of 98/100. buldwgz (892)  3 years ago

"Moving for gold"..I was referring to the gold rush..you know, going to where there was a hint of gold, to strike it rich...with no real concern for your family. That is selfish, I would say.


myLot reputation of 92/100. Transdisc (18489)  3 years ago

While some may 'move for gold' for selfish reasons, I imagine there were some instances where the people hoped that the move for gold was going to help their family situation.

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. bevvy22 (136)   3 years ago

I think you have hit the nail on the head, while the calander moves, people are generally the same.


myLot reputation of 98/100. buldwgz (892)  3 years ago

Thanks...I try.


myLot reputation of 92/100. Transdisc (18489)  3 years ago

But does the calendar really move? Isn't the calendar, in fact, just a way for us to track the passage of time, when in fact, time doesn't move? Or does it?

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. bevvy22 (136)   3 years ago

Oh, I have to agree with you. I hear people constantly stating how times have changed, but in reality, when I think about it, the calander changes, but that is all.


myLot reputation of 92/100. Transdisc (18489)  3 years ago

That is what I stated earlier. All that changes is technology. Unfortunately, the bonehead who started this Discussion must have a giant chip on their shoulder, and can't see what I'm saying.


myLot reputation of 98/100. buldwgz (892)  3 years ago

I resent that...I never once said I wasn't a bonehead...LOL!

 
6. branmatt (43)   3 years ago

I think they are pretty much the same as always. I would have to agree with you.

 
7. myLot reputation of 98/100. Erilyn (533)   3 years ago

People are the same as they ever were really if you think about it. The same things that motivated people hundreds of years ago are still in evidence. The only difference is the way they go about getting what they want. And of course we hear about things more often because of the media.


myLot reputation of 98/100. buldwgz (892)  3 years ago

Thanks for your insight.

 
8. Vycynyty (10)   3 years ago

I think that generally times are the same. I think people are actually better than they used to be. We seemed to have learned, I hope. The glass is half full I guess.


myLot reputation of 98/100. buldwgz (892)  3 years ago

Thanks for the optimistic reply. A positive view is always good, or so I think.

 
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