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At What Age You Should Allow Your Daughter To Fall In Love? email this discussion to a friend?

success2u (48)3 years ago

I have two daughter aged 4 & 8. So far they have been good and did not created any problems to my family. However one day when fetching them from school time (about 1.00 pm) I saw one couple about 12~13 yrs old doing something very distracting.

I know at that age there is no love to be called. May be it's just for fun???

And that makes me started thing that these two kids still wearing school uniform. Do their parents realized what is going on? I can't comments much because I have daughters to take care too.

 
 
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tags:  family, daughter, love, crushes, parenting
 
1. myLot reputation of 97/100. danishcanadian (20214)   ranked 86 out of 3,917 in family   3 years ago

I think "fall in love" is the wrong choice of words for this. At that age, 12 and 13, they are too young to know what love is, and what they are experiencing is pure LUST. Love can only be born of mature relationships between mature people, lust, the act of "wanting it NOW" can come about at any time.

I agree with you that their parents need to keep a closer watch on them.


success2u (48)  3 years ago

You are right. Most of parents would to really take a closer watch on their kids. But most of the times this problem occur because in the modern world where they are having both working parent.


success2u (48)  3 years ago

You are right. Most of parents would to really take a closer watch on their kids. But most of the times this problem occur because in the modern world where they are having both working parent.

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. ernst111 (4134)   ranked 3,702 out of 3,917 in family   3 years ago

Young children would have crushes and puppy love. I do think this is just normal to happen to kids. My daughter and nieces had their crushes when they were around eight years old. And they are even willing to confide to me about their crushes. But then, now I think that at the age of fifteen, they are more exposed to courtship. And while I don't say they are not allowed to accept suitors, I do not tolerate them. For me, the best age for love is around eighteen years.

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3. myLot reputation of 53/100. justiceangel (127)   3 years ago

I ahve 2 girls 3 and 5 I know I can't stop them from falling in love it just happens, but dating where i allow them to be alone with a boy maybe around 15-16 and hope I have raised them to be smart.


success2u (48)  3 years ago

Good Luck to you and may you have a happy family. I think everybody deserved to be in good family living and wanted to raised their kids to the most successful level. But sometime there are unforseen circumstances that hinder us from achieving what we always wanted.

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4. myLot reputation of 92/100. diansinta (4806)   ranked 2,606 out of 3,917 in family   3 years ago

when she at college.absolutely

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5. myLot reputation of 81/100. blue_fairee (139)   3 years ago

I would say closer to your kids is the best solution. And engage them in some other activities instead of watching TV (even cartoons these days are really not good for kids).

I personally think its media that created such things that made life difficult

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