Is "It" Does Not Important To Ladies??

Wow, I feel really sorry for both of you! I realise that you are probably hurt, but you need to resolve this issue before it gets bigger. First of all, yes, "it" is important to the ladies too. I have a very active "it" life with my husband and we both work towards pleasing each other. It is important that both get satisfaction from "it". Is it possible that she is not getting any pleasure out of it. Sometimes it is difficult to discuss this topic, especially if your wife or you are not comfortable with it. Please start now, talk to her quietly, and first of all you need to explain to her that you want to please her and she needs to tell you what pleases her. Please be patient, it will take time. You need to experiment and either guage her reactions yourself or try to get her to tell you if she is enjoying the sensations or not. It will take a little time but you will both be happier for it. Please do not go and buy films and watch them because some of them can put her off totally. You need to be sensitive to her feelings and go about it carefully and with a lot of tact. I hope things work out for you. All the best

Sorry to hear about your trouble.
If you want to talk to her about it,try to choose a time when you are not in bed and not infront of the children.
She may have pain from 'it' or just see you as being the only one getting pleasure which sorry to be crude,is abit like it being done TO you not WITH you.
Also are you actually talking with her or just going ahead?
You dont need to answer that but do think about it.