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Have you been "set up" with someone by a friend? Has it worked? dating email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 79/100. marnzie (215)   ranked 1,699 out of 23,111 in relationships3 years ago

I have been "set up" by match-making friends with men twice. Both relationships ended up as disasters! The first one was a guy from church that a leader in the church set me up with. It ended up being a 4 and a half year abusive, horrible relationship. I trusted the leader and I am still really mad at her for setting me up with a man who she didn't know very well, and I was only 16 years old.
The second set up was by a mutual friend and only lasted 3 months. I really loved the guy and was so happy the friend set us up but it ended terribly when the friend got involved and caught up with our relationship. Rumours and gossip ended up destroying the relationship.
Have you ever been set up or match made with someone? Has it been successful?

 
 
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thrwbckjay67 (2582) response was accepted on 3/13/2007.
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1. saifweb (67)   3 years ago

Until now I haven't but may be in future I do it

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. catfever7 (401)   ranked 1,634 out of 23,111 in relationships   3 years ago

I was set up once by a really close friend (she set me up with her husband's best friend) anyway..It did not go well.
The guy was not really my type...besides that he was overly
interested..telling me when we first met, how he was in love with me...he ended up being a complete psycho..and actually stalked me.
Needless to say..I don't really trust the whole set up thing anymore.


myLot reputation of 79/100. marnzie (215)   ranked 1,699 out of 23,111 in relationships  3 years ago

I totally hear you! Thanks

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. thrwbckjay67 (2582)   ranked 2,078 out of 23,111 in relationships   3 years ago

You know, it hasn't worked out for me very well at all.

I love my best friend, she is one of the sweetest people in my life, but her judgment in the type of girls that fit for me was totally off. In high school she tried to set me up with one of the girls she was going to school with. This girl was actually the cousin of ony of my good friends at my high school. That one really didn't work at all...

we had very little in common, she wasn't easy to talk to, and we found out that after our physical attraction there was little else for us to lean on.

My wife and I met through friends. It wasn't a setup though, because we decided on our own without the help of our mutual friends to begin dating and get together. I think when friends do something like that they mean well, but in the end it really is hit or miss depending on the people involved themselves.

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