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Does it creep you out when an old man hits on you? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 75/100. Giggles88 (305)   ranked 1,006 out of 35,431 in people3 years ago

I get hit on by a lot of old men at my work. It really creeps me out. I mean yeah they might be lonely or desprite but I'm only 18 and they're like 70. I had one 50 year old guy ask me if he could buy me and how much I would cost. Another guy tried to get me to leave and go with him in his semi-truck. Why do older men do this? Is it some kind of sick joke or do they not realize it's creepy and that we could be their grandkids?


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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. Jshean20 (8020)   ranked 3,304 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

I had to chuckle at that picture you posted with this discussion, that old man says the funniest things. I assume that you're a "Family Guy" fan? Did you see the episode where Herbert (the old man in the photo) saw a naked kid walk by and he was like "Holy moly, it must be my birthday!"

As for the situation you're talking about, this is rather scary (you being 18 having a 70 year old trying to pick you up)! I assume that older guys hit on younger girls because they want to feel young again. The oldest guy that's ever hit on me was in his late 30s when I had turned 19 at the time, he claimed that he thought I was older though, so it wasn't a big deal. Once he knew my age he didn't pry anymore..so I respected him for that.


myLot reputation of 75/100. Giggles88 (305)   ranked 1,006 out of 35,431 in people  3 years ago

I love Family Guy!!! I know that episode. I think that old guy is rather disturbing expecially in that one. I look young for my age even so it was almost like them hitting on a 16 year old.

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2. myLot reputation of 82/100. jimbo45 (9407)   ranked 6,041 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

i had a 50 year old guy hit on me,and i was not chuffed.it wasnt that long ago and im 46.had the guy been your age clarissa,i wouldnt have minded.i dont know why older guys do this,but i think its ignorant and disrespectful.it must be quite creepy to be hit on by guys of that age when you are so young.tell them to get stuffed


myLot reputation of 75/100. Giggles88 (305)   ranked 1,006 out of 35,431 in people  3 years ago

I'm assuming that was Jimbo's wifey. Yeah they need to eat my shorts hahaha I had to say that I love The Simpsons. It's even creepier cause there is no way they could think I was older than 16 because I barely look it.

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. velvetprinzess (1008)   ranked 629 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

It happens to me all the time! But I excuse them because ..... well..... guys are naturally attacted to youth, especially if one is beautiful as well. That's a bonus.

It used to frighten me a lot and at times, I'd try to find some excuse to avoid them and run off. But now I realize that most of the time it's pretty harmless.

So enjoy the attention in the meantime. We are all young only once so enjoy it while you can!


myLot reputation of 75/100. Giggles88 (305)   ranked 1,006 out of 35,431 in people  3 years ago

Wow you made a really good point. That is so very true. I usually take it as a compliment anyways. I guess I better just enjoy the attention.

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4. myLot reputation of 53/100. freebc (1501)   ranked 3,933 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

You poor girl.
Apparently they never taught you enough about males either in school or at home.

Let me help you. Here what you need to know.

1. ALL MEN ARE PIGS. No exceptions. Your boyfriend/husband might be controlling his lust, but that's all he is doing.

2. ALL MEN CAN/WILL FALL. All it takes is the right woman, at the right time, and no immeadiate fear of being caught and down he goes.

3. ALL MEN LOOK. As long as there is breath in the lungs and working eyes in the head, men look.

4. THE ONLY THINGS ON A MAN'S BODY THAT DON'T AGE ARE HIS EYES AND HIS IMAGINATION. 'nuff said here...

5. AT PUBERTY, A MALE's BRAINS SOMEHOW SLIDE DOWN TO HIS GROIN AND THEY DON'T EVEN START TO COME BACK UP UNTIL THEY ARE ABOUT 30. Some guys never fully recover from childhood.

If you hold these truthes near and dear and don't expect too much, you won't be disappointed.


myLot reputation of 75/100. Giggles88 (305)   ranked 1,006 out of 35,431 in people  3 years ago

HAHAHA that's very true. Thanks for the good laugh!!!

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. lordwarwizard (10401)   ranked 804 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

I think they sometimes forget their age.:P

Maybe you are so engaging that they are too engrossed with you that they can't think other thoughts. As long as you stay careful, take that as a compliment!;-)


myLot reputation of 75/100. Giggles88 (305)   ranked 1,006 out of 35,431 in people  3 years ago

lol I try too it's just kind of creepy sometimes. I hate the drunk ones the most but I usually just laugh at them in my head.

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. charms88 (4698)   ranked 832 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

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myLot reputation of 75/100. Giggles88 (305)   ranked 1,006 out of 35,431 in people  3 years ago

I'd go nuts on someone if they touched me or even tried to touch me. I kick them where the sun don't shine. I'm sorry you had to experience that. I will be very careful. Oh and we are both beauties!! lol!!!

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7. myLot reputation of 94/100. contuletz2007 (518)   ranked 1,806 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

that's exactly the point: we could be their grandkids! at some point older men tend to brag with their affairs.. the younger the "temptations" the better they feel. i don't really know what exactly happens inside their weird old brains but there are many men like that.
take some of my teachers at school for example. the worst one of all would be my history teacher, after we got rid of the physics teacher (because of the exact reasons among many others). he keeps staring at us as if he doesn't care we see him... gosh... could you imagine a teacher asking you to stand up from the desk without any reson but to stare at your feet, as that day you are wearing a skirt...(that's what my deskmate had to go through)... it's absurd, i know... and the worst thing is that no one does anything! after all they're teachers!


myLot reputation of 94/100. contuletz2007 (518)   ranked 1,806 out of 35,431 in people  3 years ago

ooooooopssss, sorry! i meant "legs" not "feet" lol!


myLot reputation of 75/100. Giggles88 (305)   ranked 1,006 out of 35,431 in people  3 years ago

That's really messed up. I would have done whatever I could about that. It's not right to be harassed like that. Men don't have to put up with creepy older women hitting on them like that. If they did then they would probably like it. PIGS!!!

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. cvaughn570 (296)   ranked 1,200 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

This is sexual harassment!I would be speaking with my boss. Bosses do not generally take sexual harassment lightly because they can be sued. If he or she does not take it seriously, then I would keep a journal with dates, times and exactly what happened and find an attorney! A journal with dates, times and exactly what happened would be essential because a judge would ask how you remember the date and time of an incident. You would be surprised how much it can help a case to have it logged.


myLot reputation of 75/100. Giggles88 (305)   ranked 1,006 out of 35,431 in people  3 years ago

I probably wouldn't go that far unless it kept happening from the same person. It's usually just random old men that do it. I'm a cashier so I get hit on a lot. It's pretty sad how desperate some men are especially the really old ones. Thanks for the advice though. I'll definitely keep that in mind next time.


myLot reputation of 98/100. cvaughn570 (296)   ranked 1,200 out of 35,431 in people  3 years ago

That's another story...I have been a cashier too and it is simply amazing how men can be! They assume automatically that they can to pick you up. When you tell them no thank you or you are involved, they act like you are playing hard to get. Unfortunately, there is not much you can do about it because it happens all the time. Just be careful leaving work, especially if it is a small store without a lot of people out there when you leave!

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9. myLot reputation of 90/100. crimsonblues (1095)   ranked 2,343 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

Haha, it creeps me out too!! I dont think they realize that we think of them as icky old men. Most of them are probably trying to see if they still have it, and a lot of them just like to flirt.

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10. myLot reputation of 97/100. cdparazo (3945)   ranked 2,102 out of 35,431 in people   3 years ago

It's really creepy for receiving blatant proposals and open invitation...ewww! I guess it's a way for them to feel young and prove to themselves that they are still virile enough for young women such as you.

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