looking for grandfather Frank Harry Beck

Last knowned reside nt Trenton NJ Frank was married to my grandmother Florence Beck,but as the story goes he left her. 35 years later he shows up in the trenton
newspaper as my grandmother was visiting her sister in trenton nj and read that mrs.
frank harry beck in obits. I believe it was in 1966. in the summer months. My grandmother went to the funeral parlor and said she was MRS> FRANK HARRY BECK over the
casket where this other women was lying in. WHAT A SEEN!!!!!!!!!!!! Poor frank tried to run out but didnt make it to the door. the police had showed up. he loved my mother so much she died without seeing him she asked to see her dad before
she passed away but I couldnt find him.He was born 1901 in november where? I will never give up. where are you grandpa? we all just wanted to love you especially
my mother Doris Elaine Beck.