First time in SEX............

My suggestion is not a popular one, but it is the best one for anyone in your position.

1. Get married. This is a commandment of God that sex is not for your personal entertainment. It is for the union of a man and a woman for life, not for one evening.

2. Have sex only with someone you intend to spend the rest of your days with and be sure ahead of time that you are both free of sexually transmitted diseases.

3. Be sure you are ready for possible consequences of the sex act, such as pregnancy. Are you both ready to be parents and are you financially able to provide for a baby if one should result from your sexual act?

If you meet all these things before the sex you are contemplating a couple of days from now, I say, enjoy yourself knowing that God will bless your union.

If you have to ask questions like this, I don't think this is the right time or person for you, you should not be worried about having sex, if you are then it is not right. Give yourself more time, reconsider your choices

If and when you do it, make sure you are both into it. Do not attempt to pressure the other person at all, if you do you'll regret it. Take your time and explore each others bodies and find all teh cool spots that turn you both on. Lick and fondle and do all the fun stuff before you get down to the deed itself. You may find that the foreplay is actually more fun.

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