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Everyday I am slowly becoming more convinced there is nothing worth dying for! email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 45/100. shogunly (815)   ranked 11,947 out of 38,017 in life3 years ago

I realize that and it is scary . Think of all the implications!

 
 
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tags:  dying, for, sacrifice, principle, morality
 
1. myLot reputation of 86/100. Jakker27 (3910)   ranked 1,357 out of 38,017 in life   3 years ago

Is that really so scarey? Let's not get into the fact you don't even know what happens after you die, it then means that life is worth living I don't think you'll find many people too sad about that. Lifes for living, which begs the question why you thinking of death anyway? Go out and live. Goodluck


myLot reputation of 86/100. Jakker27 (3910)   ranked 1,357 out of 38,017 in life  3 years ago

ps - there is no greater gift then the gift of life....


myLot reputation of 45/100. shogunly (815)   ranked 11,947 out of 38,017 in life  3 years ago

I know what happens after I die - the end of whatever the definition of "me" is . But Jakker, as humans we need to comfort ourselves that we place certain VALUES like dignity and justice ABOVE the joys, ambitions, desires of life . Isnt that what ultimately divides us from the beast? Should we be divided from the beast AT ALL?

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2. myLot reputation of 33/100. urbandekay (4295)   ranked 19,359 out of 38,017 in life   3 years ago

Ah Shogunly, you are a Nietzscherian last man

all the best urban


myLot reputation of 33/100. urbandekay (4295)   ranked 19,359 out of 38,017 in life  3 years ago

If in some smothering dreams you too could pace
Behind the wagon that we flung him in,
And watch the white eyes writhing in his face,
His hanging face, like a devil's sick of sin;
If you could hear, at every jolt, the blood
Come gargling from the froth-corrupted lungs,
Obscene as cancer, bitter as the cud
Of vile, incurable sores on innocent tongues,--
My friend, you would not tell with such high zest
To children ardent for some desperate glory,
The old Lie: Dulce et decorum est
Pro patria mori.

Wilfred Owen

all the best urban


myLot reputation of 45/100. shogunly (815)   ranked 11,947 out of 38,017 in life  3 years ago

Thanks urban, great poem . Dulce et decorum est= sweet and honorable it is, pro patria morir= to die for one's country . Right?


myLot reputation of 33/100. urbandekay (4295)   ranked 19,359 out of 38,017 in life  3 years ago

Yes, check out the whole poem

all the best urban,


myLot reputation of 33/100. urbandekay (4295)   ranked 19,359 out of 38,017 in life  3 years ago

http://www.english.emory.... the best urban


myLot reputation of 99/100. fjaril (4151)   ranked 29 out of 38,017 in life  3 years ago

Thanks urban. I appreciate your kindness to leave us the link.


myLot reputation of 45/100. shogunly (815)   ranked 11,947 out of 38,017 in life  3 years ago

I had to choose Urban's answer, I just loved the poem he cited . I will continue reading it, it deserves to be memorized . The Latin part I could not forget, maybe because of some musical quality in Latin that makes it easier to remember . Or more likely because it is only a short part of the whole thing hahaha . Anyway thanks, the idea of the poem is close to what I felt like saying, I meant sacrificing life for ANY idea or belief in general, not just defending one's country .
While I am writing this, I feel like a coward and a traitor, yet I wonder if avoiding those same categorizations might be the REAL motive behind the actions of any soldier who ever marched to his death . Or the immature hunger for GLORY that is synonymous with youth .
Of course fighting to PRESERVE life is understandable and normal, however I don't think that is a factor in ALL fights and sacrifices .
Thank you urban and redyellowblack and all others for your feedback, it is really appreciated .

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3. myLot reputation of 40/100. redyellowblackdog (3984)   ranked 9,924 out of 38,017 in life   3 years ago

It is scary mostly because it means so much of what we were taught when young was wrong. The implication being that perhaps the teaching of this false knowledge was delibrate to some extent? Is that what is bothering you?

It use to bother me, but not any longer. I have come to realize that deceptions of this kind are pretty common place amoung the human race.

Deception of one kind or another is how one group of people get another group to act not in their own best interest but to benefit them! Happens all the time.

The implication that bothers me the most is the implication that it would be smart to join these other people in their devious ways. So far, I have resisted, but why?

Well, there is something worth dying for. Your family and or perhaps certain friends. Especially if you can give your life to save several of them.

So, I maintain these master deceivers who try to convince other people to give up their lives for the greater good, should be exposed as a way to stand against them, instead of us joining them.


myLot reputation of 45/100. shogunly (815)   ranked 11,947 out of 38,017 in life  3 years ago

Hello, red! I understand from your responce that you think I meant (to die for Allah) and (Jihad) . Well that is not the call for sacrifice I was talking about, it is rather the more common idea that it is worth dying for one's family and loved one's and beliefs . That is what I meant when I said it's scary to realize that there actually is no meaning to sacrifice . I will try to colect my thoughts and continue explaining .
I certainly would like to get an opportunity to show you and others what people here are REALLY like, because if you think there are so many people here that are genuinely ready to die for Allah or anyone else for that matter, you don't know the people here . People like to FANTASIZE about dying for ALLAH, dying for honor, etc etc of romantic notions . Actually nobody can afford to . Actually most of their energies are directed at surviving in a decadent corrupt society, the average citizen here invests too much to save his own neck to have anything left to volunteer to honorable or charitable or religious pursuits . Of course there are the losers, like there are in every society, who like to tie their own personal tragedies to GODS and HEAVENS and ANGELS and RIGHT and WRONG and JUSTICE and INJUSTICE etc Misery loves company as they say, some people choose the company of imaginary heroes of religion and sacrifice to numb the pain . It all ultimately comes down to psychology and offer and demand, some times it is boring to contemplate .


myLot reputation of 40/100. redyellowblackdog (3984)   ranked 9,924 out of 38,017 in life  3 years ago

shogunly,

Hello, again to you too. Thanks for the clarification. I should have realized you meant a rather complex situation.

You know, it occurs to me there is a fantastic book about life, philosophy, politics, and religion residing in your mind somewhere.

Of course, you could end up like Salmon Rushdie.

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4. myLot reputation of 73/100. roztredtoes (1912)   ranked 8,601 out of 38,017 in life   3 years ago

The more I read the comments on mylot the more convinced I am that there is not much worth living for.

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. fjaril (4151)   ranked 29 out of 38,017 in life   3 years ago

No there isn't anything worth dying for, other than to save the ones you love, I mean. I find no honour in war or religion at all. There isn't any and I sure wouldn't take the call to arms, to die for my country.. the country whose beautiful landscape moves me immensely and takes me away from 'the sickening crowd,' My land wouldn't eeven know I left, but for the trees that remember my spirit.. ahh, perhaps I could die for the spirit of the trees, instead.

But on I trudge, every day, aware that I walk among misery for which I have no cure and no respite, and so many people who I can ony offer politeness and kindness if we tough, and then I close my mind.

I go on because I need to hope, at some time, I need to believe that, one day, we, as a people, find a true purpose of being here at all.. and I want it to BE a reason worth the living and the striving, the loving and the kindness, or why bother.

 
6. myLot reputation of 98/100. liranlgo (2887)   ranked 5,833 out of 38,017 in life   3 years ago

well that is an interesting topic shogunly
i realized that after i have been through alote of things in my life. i do think that there ar exaptionals.
but i did noticed that alote of people in my country realized that also that there is not a thing that is worth dying for.
it is a little problematic here. because we do relay on people who will fight wars here and danger themselfs.
and when a person feels the way you said. he usually leaves the country..

 
7. myLot reputation of 62/100. coffeechat (903)   ranked 1,906 out of 38,017 in life   3 years ago

Gosh! Shogunly, with your new avatar, this is really getting a bit morbid; however!

“Freedom is not free” in the sense that you must . . .

- Remain vigilant about your government’s antics

- Arrange your life in a way that the regime has less effect on your happiness

- Possibly move to another country if your government becomes excessively oppressive (I would like to think, for example, that I would’ve fled Nazi Germany before it was too late) - in your case you should flee Gaddafy country... if someone will give you a visa.

- Clarify your values and consider the consequences of your actions before making important decisions

- Learn from your mistakes

- Be honest with yourself and others, even if it makes you unpopular sometimes

I picked this bit up from a Thoreau write-up that you may find stimulating: http://www.strike-the-roo...


myLot reputation of 45/100. shogunly (815)   ranked 11,947 out of 38,017 in life  3 years ago

Everyone seems to be under the impression I am referring to "Jihad" or dying in religious fight . I'm not . I am talking about the whole idea that some PRINCIPLES or VALUES take precedence over self-preservation .


myLot reputation of 62/100. coffeechat (903)   ranked 1,906 out of 38,017 in life  3 years ago

There is no reference to Jihad or any other Islamic thing here.

Perhaps I need to improve my written communication skills, because that is what I think I am speaking about.

Anyway.. Cheers!


myLot reputation of 40/100. redyellowblackdog (3984)   ranked 9,924 out of 38,017 in life  3 years ago

coffeechat,

What a link you found for this thread. It is great! I book marked it. Thanks.


myLot reputation of 62/100. coffeechat (903)   ranked 1,906 out of 38,017 in life  3 years ago

I am glad you found the Goodson link of value.

I thoroughly enjoyed reading it - written eloquently by an ordinary person (ok there are shades of Thoreau in there) but a very sincere and eloquent piece.

Unfortunately Shogunly who could benefit from it fails to see the value.

Cheers!

 
8. myLot reputation of 40/100. redyellowblackdog (3984)   ranked 9,924 out of 38,017 in life   3 years ago

Shogunly,

Once in awhile someone says something so different from what people expect or can comprehend that they likely misunderstand at first.

That's the problem here with people misunderstanding what your thread is about.

I think everyone here disagrees that there is nothing worth dying for. The concept is too radical for most people.

It is too radical for me to adopt as my own belief, but I think I can understand it.

The implications are extreme. So, extreme that I'm not going to talk about it here. Too many would not understand.

 
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