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People asking for something in return.. email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 93/100. raijin (6727)   ranked 427 out of 35,472 in people3 years ago

I'm just wondering about this, because I've seen this happening all the time. Sometimes, misunderstandings is the cause of ending a good friendly relationship we have. Sometimes, it also causes favoring others and neglecting the one's who mostly needed the help that we should've given to them.

As for here in mylot, I've seen a certain member here who asks for something in return. It's begging for a a response they've made to be chosen as best, which for me, is very unfair to the whole community. I've seen this twice, and that the member seems to take advantage to some of the newbies here.
I won't tell a name here, so I will just ask of your views about this. As I know that that certain user is quite popular to some of it's friends, and I don't want to cause any misunderstandings here. So I hope that you won't get offended, or even your friends.

So how do you find this approach of that certain member, are you with it or against? I know that there's no rules applied about this issue, so I'm consulting you good mylot members and ask your views about this.
Is this fair to beg, take advantage of a certain user to make their posts to be chosen as the best response, even if the response is not that relevant to the topic?

Thanks, good day to all..

 
 
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happymommy3 (1134) response was accepted on 4/17/2007.
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1. myLot reputation of 87/100. sweetsue (655)   ranked 5,258 out of 35,472 in people   3 years ago

Wow, I wouldn't do that!LOL

I think some people here are going kinda insane about this stuff. As for me, I'm taking things lightly.In fact I don't resent whenever I'm getting a very few responses with every posts that I made. One response is never bad for me.

If anyone would ask me that, I'll have to scrutinize his/her work first..haha.kinda mean, what do you think? If, in case, his/her response didn't move me a bit, I will really have to turn him/her down politely. I'll give my mark to someone who is more deserving.


myLot reputation of 93/100. raijin (6727)   ranked 427 out of 35,472 in people  3 years ago

I don't find rudeness if you would really approach that certain person, because I feel like it's an insult to our intelligence to just receive something like that kind of dictatory remarks.
That's good, give the mark to those of which we know is more deserving and not because a certain member has told it to do so.

Luckily, I don't have that person my friends list!;)


myLot reputation of 95/100. ryanphil01 (3077)   ranked 1,564 out of 35,472 in people  3 years ago

asking something in return or a favor as the case may be is deemed okay if both parties agreed to deal on something that would benefit them both. not necessarily in this particular case you mentioned where he wants you to mark his response in favor of him. i am much into doing this kind of asking favor on online programs, mostly referral ones, that is if someone happens to be my referrer would invite me to join his program and in return inviting him also to enroll in my program. other than this case, i closed my doors to them. It's BRIBERY already. LOL

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2. myLot reputation of 65/100. xnipher (402)   ranked 10,392 out of 35,472 in people   3 years ago

I am against them. because MyLot pay us fairly... we join myLot because of our will not just because of the money or forceful elements...


myLot reputation of 93/100. raijin (6727)   ranked 427 out of 35,472 in people  3 years ago

We are both with the thoughts about this, and I hope that that person would know how pitiful they are..
Thanks!;)


myLot reputation of 91/100. artemis432 (2142)   ranked 522 out of 35,472 in people  3 years ago

plus our rating shouldn't affect pay


myLot reputation of 77/100. igloo85 (122)   ranked 4,967 out of 35,472 in people  3 years ago

I agree with you. Money isn't any thing here, we also can make friends here.

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3. catwoman1075 (17)   ranked 13,218 out of 35,472 in people   3 years ago

I think that this person has a shallow principle in life. He/she doesn't understand the real meaning of accomplishing something by exerting an effort. That's what he's/she's happy about. I'm not going to go down to his/her level.


myLot reputation of 93/100. raijin (6727)   ranked 427 out of 35,472 in people  3 years ago

LoL I really feel very sorry for that person, as I already know how shallow their minds could be!;)
I guess this is their easy/cheapest way to become famous here, and earn some few cents..

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. liranlgo (2888)   ranked 2,645 out of 35,472 in people   3 years ago

Mylot should have rules for those things.
I saw it a few times also, and i think it contradict the whole idea of the mylot website as a discussion website.
Lately, i have seen other things that i do not agree with, here in mylot. members promote other sites with a one ot two line sentences. they plead for people to join them.
they are not even opening a discussions about other sites, ot things that has to with the issue of their topic, they just ask in a one sentence line, for people to do somthing.
i really think that mylot should look into those posts, and rule them out.
I also think that they should add in the mylot guide lines, more things that are not to be allowed to do, here in mylot.
Those people, with those topics, are not a quality users, here in mylot.


myLot reputation of 93/100. raijin (6727)   ranked 427 out of 35,472 in people  3 years ago

I'm glad that you've seen also that, but I am not sure if we're talking about the same person here. And how I wish to know too;)
Let's just expect that it will all be deleted, because I trust mylot that they are doing their best to accomodate us all and rid of unhelpful topics here.


myLot reputation of 98/100. liranlgo (2888)   ranked 2,645 out of 35,472 in people  3 years ago

Yes. i hope sotoo. i wonder, maybe we will have to help them with that.


myLot reputation of 93/100. raijin (6727)   ranked 427 out of 35,472 in people  3 years ago

I've reported that user, and will be waiting for the result!;)

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5. myLot reputation of 90/100. spasticseagull (1588)   ranked 2,479 out of 35,472 in people   3 years ago

From my understanding of the rules it is in violation to post and ask for something or promise something for a response.This is an extract from the guidelines.I have noticed someone promising best response for the first correct answer.


Post discussions soliciting a response for a response for example “+” rating for a response. These are against our terms and will be deleted.


myLot reputation of 93/100. raijin (6727)   ranked 427 out of 35,472 in people  3 years ago

Yes, mylot admin does not allow this type of "acts of desperation."
I won't be surprised if that person's profile would disappear one of these days.

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6. myLot reputation of 81/100. ozzydee70 (319)   ranked 4,281 out of 35,472 in people   3 years ago

we have diffrent views in every discussions we want to response and its up with the one who started the discussion to chose what he/she think the best response. we are here to have fun and earn a bit at the same time. we're not here to outwin other person.


myLot reputation of 93/100. raijin (6727)   ranked 427 out of 35,472 in people  3 years ago

Yes that's the main reason why we're all here, and I just can't imagine that something like that is happening here on mylot.
Ahh, the wonders of people's minds, just so unpredictable!;)


myLot reputation of 81/100. ozzydee70 (319)   ranked 4,281 out of 35,472 in people  3 years ago

you cant please everybody as the saying goes. in some cases you can have an instinct what their true attitude is..


myLot reputation of 93/100. raijin (6727)   ranked 427 out of 35,472 in people  3 years ago

Hey there.. Congratulations on your new star rating, this just mean that alot of people did rated you good!;)

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7. myLot reputation of 73/100. everlasting (9961)   ranked 5,607 out of 35,472 in people   3 years ago

I ask for help but not those in my mylot friends. Just previously, I asked asylum for help to animate my avatar and he did. If he will ask for my help and I can do it, I will certainly do it. Begging for the best response is like taking away the privelege of the one who post to select the best response. This sucks.


myLot reputation of 93/100. raijin (6727)   ranked 427 out of 35,472 in people  3 years ago

The help you are pertaining to about Asylum is simply legal here, as I also do these types of help to some of my friends here.
But this person is simply vulgar, as it states that it's response should be chosen because of the response it has given. Yes, it indeed sucks, and I find VERY desperate.

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. trinidadvelasco (9110)   ranked 577 out of 35,472 in people   3 years ago

I don't understand why there are some of us here who are so anxious about getting their responses to be marked best response. It may do us well if we bear in mind that even if we do our best in making each response, it is highly probable that there is someone who can come up with a much better one. Also, if we feel that it was a lousy one we did, chances are there is someone else who had done worse. Most of us, usually fall within the midrange, and that is a fact of life. For others to be begging that their responses be marked as the best one, if I were the originator of the discussion, I'd surely disregard it when choosing the best one.

All of us who have been around for sometime already, know that it is with some difficulty that we choose the best response. So many good responses are given by the mylotians and at times it takes good effort sizing up all the entries that comes in.


myLot reputation of 93/100. raijin (6727)   ranked 427 out of 35,472 in people  3 years ago

I think it is because they want to make a fool out of themselves, as they think they are the best. But in reality, they are like insects looking for something to suck upon.
I find this person telling 'only' the newbies to mark the response it made as best, and of course that person wouldn't dare say that on someone like us 'oldies'!;)

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9. myLot reputation of 96/100. catcai (818)   ranked 660 out of 35,472 in people   3 years ago

Lucky for me I haven't read responses that wanted me to give their response the best response mark… are there really actually people like that here? Well, I guess they want to have a higher star rating that’s why they ask for that. But I don’t think I will ever have that enough face to demand a BEST RESPONSE for my responses to my friends.

I don’t know if I'm against it but it does kind of irritate me- I mean to have someone respond to your discussion and ask that they be labeled as best response? Especially if their response was not even “good” for your standards? I don’t know, I don’t want to offend but I think there’s this sort of rudeness in that idea. It's like not giving the judges a chance to judge well.
You're right there’s no rule against people asking that their responses be marked as best response. I guess this will just depend on the persons pride whether he wants to ask for that or not. I just hope the these users who asks to be rated a best response- does have the responses that live up to the “best response” rate.


myLot reputation of 93/100. raijin (6727)   ranked 427 out of 35,472 in people  3 years ago

Yes there is/are, and I am sure that this person has it's day's numbered. I find it not a demand but a dictate, as this person most of the times do receive it's response as best.
Fairness in competition is the game here, and I find that person's doing as cheating.

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10. myLot reputation of 92/100. Perry2007 (1652)   ranked 1,304 out of 35,472 in people   3 years ago

I have never received a request of that kind, but if I do, I might consider if the response really makes any sense. But for the one requesting such, perhaps it will not have a good feeling even if he/she was rated out of request. poor fellow.


myLot reputation of 93/100. raijin (6727)   ranked 427 out of 35,472 in people  3 years ago

An intelligent mylot member does not have to vary his/her choice by getting demands to mark their response as best, by the responder.
Everyone should what quality post means and that they should choose a response which stands from the rest, and not because someone told them so..

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