"She's a TRAMP, Im NOT the father"...Should he go to the birth or not?

First of all, LOVE YOUR DISPLAY NAME (I'm all about Nascar too). Anyway, unfortunately this is something that is happening more frequently in our society. I personally feel that if the guy doesn't want to be there for reason to believe that the child is not his, than he shouldn't be there. His presence there will make such an enjoyable moment a terrible experience. If later he finds out that the child is not his, it will be his loss for not being there. And I feel that the girl shouldn't have any anger towards him, because she shouldn't have put herself in the situation that could lead to his doubts of him being the father. This is such a Maury Povich Show situation. But unfortunately it's a reality for many. And I feel that having been a premiscuous person in the past that I can speak freely on this topic. Yes, in the past when in an abusive marriage I cheated on my husband, and got pregnant, but I knew who the father was. I thought it would be my ticket out to get a divorce... boy was I wrong. Anyway, if people are in a serious relationship they need to take precautions so situations like this will not happen and if the guy feels the child is not his he can be proven WRONG when the DNA comes out. So, that girl needs to face what she has done, because she put herself in that situation. We all need to remember, what is done in the dark will soon come to light. I have some sympathy for the girl and the guy, but this is their reality. You know this almost falls under the lines of the situations when girls just don't know who their baby's father is. And that is something that I just don't understand. It's so easy to figure out who the father is, well unless you were involved in some orgy type situation or slept with more than 2 guys within 48 hours. And a word of advice, if someone does have more than one partner they should keep a log of who they sleep with on each day to help avoid this type of confusion. Why do people put baby's in this situation is beyond me.

Yeah, he should of went. I know a lot of guys who use the excuse she cheated on me to get out of accepting the responsibility for helping create this child. If they do a paternity test later and it turns out to be his. The courts will come down harder on him for it.
You are right. It is a once in a lifetime experience that should never be passed up on. I enjoyed it when I was there when my wife gave birth to our children. I never actually got to be in the room when my son was born. But I was in there for my daughter and I was amazed by the experience. To create life and be part of the birth experience is a experience that you should never pass up.

I think he definitely should have went. Especially if theres a slight chance that the babys his.