Jennifer Lopez and Mark Anthony - Lopez has been in two short-lived marriages. The first one, which was with Ojani Onoa, ended in divorce in 1998 after 21 months, and the second, in 2001-2002, was with Cris Judd, her former backup dancer. Between marriages, in 1999-2000, she dated singer and designer P. Diddy, breaking up after a shooting incident in a New York night club. Recently, Lopez has been engaged to Ben Affleck, but the marriage planned for September 13, 2003 was called off a few days before the event.