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Elephants and I Have Something in Common

celticeagle @celticeagle (189792) • Boise, Idaho 17 Sep 22

After a lot of observation and time spent watching elephants and their attitudes researchers find that they do indeed remember injuries and they do hold grudges. A study of African elephants found that they will react negatively...

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Hmmm? What would you do?

me @dfollin (27267) • United States 5 Dec 19

Would you rather be an angel on your friends shoulder or a devil on somebody you don't like or did you wrongs shoulder? I have come to find out that it doesn't do any good hold a grudge. That...

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Can We Stop Hating?

[eds] @ZedSmart (19839) • Philippines 13 Oct 19

Sometimes, we will blurt that we hated an individual because he or she did something to us hateful. We dislike the person. We may say that we cannot forgive the person in our whole life for what it has caused. The ill feeling is...

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I wish adults were like children, they never keep grudges or exaggerate things.

Abby @a_jerobon (2317) • Eldoret, Kenya 4 Aug 19

This evening, my brother and I were going to the shopping center. I was going to pick some clothes from the tailor while he was going to buy a pair of socks. Before we went, my niece wanted to go with us but we refused because it...

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Do You Hold Grudges?

Ann LeFlore @poehere (15123) • French Polynesia 10 Sep 17

There are some people who just can’t let go and move on. My mother is one of these people. In the last few days she has been sending me blasting emails about things that happened 10 years ago. Who cares? Since she closed my bank...

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Do you hold grudges?

Rhombus @Rhombus (356) • South Africa 30 Jun 17

Generally not much phases me, however everyone has their limit. Every day we can add value to someone's life. Unfortunately general meanness has a Ripple effect (sorry husband). Beginning to think there's a fine line between...

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Why I Hate Grudges

Go Crossbones @crossbones27 (52905) • Mojave, California 3 Dec 16

This one seems pretty straight forward. It is about adolescent adults. Let me see, where is an example of this? Oh Yeah, our elected officials. Most of them seem to love to show us the wrong way of how to behave. They set bad...

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I heard the words "I'm never speaking to you again!" today

The Horse @TheHorse (238275) • Walnut Creek, California 14 Oct 16

Her eyes showed both anger and hurt as she spoke these words to me today. I was surprised, as I thought I had done the right thing. My response was subdued but honest: "I will miss you if you never speak to me again." She did...

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30 years is a long time to hold a grudge

Audrey @lilnana1111 (2305) • United States 12 May 16

Sometimes we tend to hold on to hurts, pains and grudges, they do us no good, but we have trouble letting them go. I recently found out a family member has been carrying around an old grudge toward me for over 30 years, wow! The...

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You hold grudge ...

leateagee @leateagee (3667) • China 20 Mar 13

... don't you? We are only humans. We get hurt when people do bad things to us. When people are treating us unfairly. When people don't appreciate us or our efforts at all. When we hear discouragemnt from our loved ones. When...

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you hold grudges

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Saying yes to happiness

moveadlung76 @moveadlung76 (671) • Malaysia 17 Oct 12

Saying Yes To Happiness Means Learning To Say No To Things And People That stress You Out I really agree and feel right for the quote above that if you saying yes to happiness. you must also learning to saying no to...

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Just Things going on

violann @violann (436) • United States 21 Apr 12

I really wonder sometimes, I mean really wonder why siblings will not forgive. As for that matter why will you not forgive a friend. You can forgive someone and renew your relationship, but sometimes, just because of the hurt...

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Are u always the one who has to apologize so you and another person can move on?

abby1221 @abby1221 (71) 11 Apr 12

Whether it be with a significant other or a friend or family member, who usually apologizes in a fight: you or the other person? I feel like I'm always the one apologizing first and I hate it because I'm usually not feeling very...

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Do you hold grudges?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9460) • United States 7 Mar 12

I know it is a very bad thing to hold grudges. So I try not too. But sometimes people make me very upset. And then it bothers me for a little bit. I think it bothers us more so when it's our family members because then we have to...

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Women read too much into everything

geekemgirl @geekemgirl (270) • United States 9 Nov 11

I work in an office of all women and it can be difficult sometimes because women can be moody and over analytical. I'd hear people say this all the time and didnt like or agree with it until I was placed in the situation myself....

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do you forget and forgive or you forgive but not forget....

sachiare22 @sachiare22 (50) • Philippines 3 May 11

someone with a "goody good" attitude really good in making up stories and pa-awa effect...someone who had done terrible things to you... shattered your heart into pieces made you cry for months.. you thought she/he was a friend...

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G R U D G E S .... make you disturbed.....

busybee10 @busybee10 (3186) • India 15 Mar 11

Life runs Up and Down..and every one faces some or other situation in life where grudges are created... Do you keep on with these grudges or ease yourself with these and enjoy yourself in...

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As a person do you hold grudges.or do you find it easy to forgive someone who

littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 9 Jan 11

When someone wrongs you ..do you hold grudges? Do you go to such extremes that you will not talk to that person any more? What is your way of handling your anger toward someone who had hurt you or wrong your. .? Are you...

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Do you hold Grudges ? If so for how long?

Tallygirl09 @Tallygirl09 (1380) • United States 10 Apr 10

I was talking with a friend and was hearing about how angry she was with her sister for borrowing a sweater and unfortunately damaging it. She had taken it without permission for a special party. This happened over 3 mohths ago...

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Do you get angry quickly?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 7 Feb 10

Anger is a problem that affects many people, and it is especially so when one gets angry quickly. In a reading for such person Edgar Cayce once gave the following advice; "Do not rail at anyone. Do not hold grudges. Do not hold...

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