weddings bells?

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for those who are familiar with wedding vows,the one most touching is,for rocher and in poorer,in sickness and in health,till death do us part.sad to say i wasnt able to experience this when a relationship is about to begin,my mom always told me if a guy couldnt stick by your side in the simple problems of relationship what more in the greatest challenge of life?and its always struck me that what if the person was only there for the good times but will abandoned you when things get rough or unfavorable.i dont what to seem noble and all but the challenges a couple will have to face are real.this is the reason why i never really like tantrums it is very destructive and unnecessary.why cant you be happy while you can?why cant you build on something to last when the real battle begins relationship is also like partnership.you commit yourselfthat person because you care and believe in your very heart that things will work.you believe in your partner and discuss things about solution and not arguments which leads to more problems.in my past relationship i have always tried to fortified this open communication line knowing that male would want to discussed that are not clear to them yet sad to say i always fall short on this, ut since it was cycle i always though that i am hoping for the best and always expecting the worst, i know that its feels like to be promised foerever and will be gone in 60 seconds,when im happy wi th ayoau i love you but if not goodbye no questions asked.yes it has always been that cold.am i cynical?i do not know, yes i a realistic and that really happened,its just funny though that its so easy to let go of someone when they have become a part of your life,why do people think that its easy for us,but they dont really know how really hurt we are.